tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5193554780258655243.post5473418656957815327..comments2008-04-03T02:12:45.667-04:00Dear Deehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05008767284155158478noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5193554780258655243.post-56847242192950896082008-04-03T02:12:00.000-04:002008-04-03T02:12:00.000-04:00treehugger, I disagree with you. Having sex is something you should wait to do until you're married, and you truly know you're with someone you're going to be with for the rest of your life. To me, and many other girls, sex is something you should wait for, and IS very very wrong before marriage. I'm trying to get my point across, but I'm having trouble wording it. Hm. Ok. To me, if you have sex before you're married, you don't respect yourself, and your body enough to wait. <BR/><BR/>If the girls are having sex with every boyfriend they get "close" to, they could be having A LOT of sex, and eventually it WOULD turn into random hook-ups. This is what I mean: a lot of the girls at my school feel... threatened when they get too close to their boyfriend. So they end up breaking up with them. That's happened at most of the schools I've been to. <BR/><BR/>Sex can be fun I guess (I wouldn't really know) but it should only be done with someone you love, trust, and know you are going to be with forever. <BR/><BR/>Talking about sex isn't wrong. Me and my friends talk about it all the time. It's having sex that is wrong. And I, for one, agree with Dee. Dee simply wants girls to respect themselves and their bodys and WAIT until they're ready. And not everyone is ready when they become a teenager, or even after that. Some people are, and there's nothing wrong with that. But it really is best to wait. <BR/>(And remember, it's the girls who have to go through all the pain if they get pregnant. Losing our figures, getting much bigger in more ways than one, becoming irratable and moody, stretch marks, and being in pain because of the contractions and kicking of the baby. Who would really want to go through that until there was someone other than their parents to be there to help them constantly?)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5193554780258655243.post-60704404530939303092008-02-21T08:14:00.000-05:002008-02-21T08:14:00.000-05:00I disagree. <BR/><BR/>Well before I get to my disagreement, let me first say <BR/>that she IS indeed a rare jewel and some guy out there will be blessed.<BR/><BR/>Buuuuuut. Sex is not "VERY VERY wrong." In fact, its hardly wrong at all. I dont know why you hate it so much, Dee, but for the rest of us, its quite enjoyable. And yes, I would agree with you if you said that girls that have sex casually have self-worth issues. <BR/>But if the girls are merely discussing past experiences with boyfriends, or close relationships then I have very little reason to see how it could be wrong.<BR/><BR/>However, if they are discussing random hook-ups with blurry faced strangers...then they're nothing more than bust downs ...doing what bust downs do. oh well.<BR/><BR/>In any event, I reject your moral judgement. Sex is not wrong. Sex is fun. And if no one is getting hurt, and both parties are benefitting from the excitement, then whats the problem? They're also 19 for crying out loud. Talking about sex at that age is NORMAL.TreeHugger2o90http://openid.aol.com/TreeHugger2o90noreply@blogger.com