How Can I Make a Cool Kid Care?

Dear Dee:
Hey how do you get a guy when he doesn't even care about you and he is the cool kid and hot ... What do I do?

Well, you can't make someone care for you. And you wouldn't really want to! You want someone to have feelings for you because of who you are -- the real you.

So your best bet is to be yourself. Now that I've said this, it doesn't mean you can't do a few extra things, like going out of your way to say 'hi' to this guy, or to flirt with him. that's totally acceptable. Step out of your comfort zone to just 'happen' to be where he'll see you or where you can talk to him (but don't be too obvious).

This could be kinda scary and intimidating -- especially since you already think he is way cool (and lets not forget hot ...) but you can do it! Don't be shy. Hold your head up with confidence and show this guy what he's missing by not hanging out with you. Or, get really bold and ask him to grab a soda with you!

And hey, if it doesn't work out, don't sweat it. There are tons of guys out there and if this one can't see how awesome you are, then ... it's totally his loss.

Now, YOU GO GIRL!

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