Best Way to Get the Girl Is to be Yourself

Dear Dee:
How do i try to get a girl to fall for me?

Let's just start off by saying, you can't MAKE someone like you or MAKE someone fall for you. Errr. Wait. You actually can, but that's not the right way to do things. When you do things that aren't your 'norm' or act a certain way just to get someone to notice you, you're not being yourself ... and while you may succeed and making her want to date you, you'll have a hard time keeping up the charade.

So, it's better to just be yourself. Show her what a great guy you are hanging out, being cool and showing her the real you. If she doesn't like you for who you really are, and if you can't be yourself around her, then she's not really someone you should waste your time on.

Now, I know above I said not to do things that aren't in your 'norm', but what I mean is don't act like you like Maroon 5 when you really hate them -- or don't tell her you love romance movies, when they really make you throw up. It's totally cool to do some things out of the ordinary -- nice, unexpected things to show her you care. Those little things go a long way -- but a lie is never the way to go -- even if it's a small one.

Trying to make someone fall for you is a risky business. It needs to come naturally and if you've been true to yourself and who you really are, when she does fall, you'll be there to catch her.