He's Not Ready for a Relationship

Dear Dee:
Well I heard about your website and I thought coming to you for advice would be the best idea. There's this guy I like ... I mean REALLY LIKE ... almost to the point where I think I'm in love.

We've been talking for about 3 months now, and he's told me he liked me a lot, too. Just a couple days ago he said he loved me. Throughout the times we've been talking, we've gotten closer and closer. I trust him with anything, I know he's got my back and all and he just seems so perfect. His friends come up to me all the time talking about how much he talks about me, and it seemed like everybody knew about us.

We aren't going out, but with the kind of relationship we had, it seemed as if that's what the next step was going to be. But just recently, he calls me up with the strangest thing ever... He tells me he "isn't ready for a relationship."

This has me thinking, because he totally made me think we were going somewhere with this. I mean, I respect him for actually telling me this beforehand so I wouldn't get hurt, but I am and it's killing me.

How do I know if he's still willing to be with me, but just not RIGHT NOW? And would it be the best idea for me to wait for him? We agreed on having nothing change in our relationship but I don't see how that's possible if were not aiming for anything.

I have NO PROBLEM staying friends with him. But it's been so long and I like him so much, I really want to be in a relationship. I'm totally confused. HELP.


Whoa. This is harsh. He actually should've told you a long time ago he didn't want a relationship. Seriously! He should've blurted that out the very second you two started talking about feelings of any kind. And really, that's just kind of something you discuss when you talk as much as it seems the two of you do. So, this is most definitely a strike against this guy in my book.

Asking him if you should wait won't do you any good. It makes you appear desperate and that never really plays well with guys. So while it's painful, you should try your hardest to move on. Cut back on the conversations. Pull back enough to make him notice but not enough to destroy your friendship.

This will accomplish one of two things: Help you get over him OR make him realize he really DOES want to get with you and he doesn't want to lose you. I am not saying that's what's going to happen, but who knows, right? He might just be taking you for granted right now thinking you'll always be there for him. And you pulling back a little might be all it takes to let him know he's not calling all the shots in your relationship.

Take care of yourself here. He's already stepped on you once and we don't want that to happen again. So this seems like the best approach. Please let me know what happens and don't get discouraged. If this one doesn't work out there are TONS of great guys out there ... and most are just looking for a great girl like you to have a relationship with.

180 comments:

Anonymous said...

omg i sent one just like this and this one helped me more..cuz im still in that situation!!!!!!!!!!

same chick:) said...

hey dee thanks for the advice. well I haven't spoken to this guy in like two weeks. maybe a couple hugs and "hey how are ya"s here and there, but that's it. I miss him a lot, and I have no idea if I'm making the right choice by giving him his "space". everybody's asking me what's happened between us two, and I really don't know how to answer that because I kinda have no clue either! I still have strong feelings for him....do you think it'd be best for me to tell him how I really feel?...but I don't wanna cause any conflict... aaahhhhh I don't know what to do.

Anonymous said...

It helps to know others are in the same situation. I am in this situation, and It’s hard because this seems like the perfect person for me, EVERYTHING seems perfect except[t one small thing, he won’t commit. He says “ he’s not ready… yadda yadda yadda” you know same ole same ole, he likes to hang – out and do things together. But there is that on little thing that makes me feel like I have built the last year of my life on a house of cards. Ok, so I am seeking advice, and I had actually considered pulling back so he would actually notice that I was pulling away, hoping he would realize he is loosing me. I thought it seemed like too much of a “game” so I decided to just grin and bear it.

Thanks,
BB

A guy on the net said...

Hey, same chick, how did things turn out for you with this guy? I see that it's been some months. Hope all went well with whatever decisions you two have made.

same boat said...

Amazing what you can find on the internet cos I was searching for advice cos I'm in pretty much the same situation. He was the one who forced me to open up about my feelings, but now after that excruciating convo, he's saying that he doesn't want anything to change. WTF. So what was all that for, right? Boys are SO useless sometimes.

It's kind of freaky how my own thoughts are echoed here: "do you think it'd be best for me to tell him how I really feel?...but I don't wanna cause any conflict..." and "I had actually considered pulling back so he would actually notice that I was pulling away, hoping he would realize he is loosing me. I thought it seemed like too much of a “game” so I decided to just grin and bear it."

Let me know how it turned out, ladies! We need all the help we can get. :)

Anonymous said...

I am in almost the exact same situation except that this guy and I never got to the point of using the word love.

It's frustrating that a guy can pursue you, call you, flirt with you, open up to you, get you to open up to him and then spring something like this on you...that he's not ready.

My opinion: move on. No matter how perfect he seems, a fear of commitment is a HUGE flaw that cancels out a lot of other things. I know it's hard to see that right now, I know exactly what you're going through.

Keep your options open. if you don't feel like getting hurt again right now, then just date around for fun. that's what I hope to do once I get over things.

I'm hoping for the best for you, girl. I know you'll find that special someone oneday.

Anonymous said...

wow u guys are amazing. I cant believe ive found ppl that are going through the same stuff as me. And its so hard to move on and give up as u said when u feel u love the person. Its been years and i cant seem to get over him and when he finally told me he liked me i felt a huge sigh of relief and happiness i cant even explain we were talking for a while and we said we wud get to no eachother first but he neva told me until later that he's not ready and every time we seem to get close and get to the point of actually being together he pulls away. And im back to square one. If it wasnt for this feeling that i keep having that he may be the one i woudnt still be in this position. I want to want to move on but i dont want to but i also dont want to keep getting hurt. So ill pull away and he'll start to act like he really wants me and needs me. Then once we start to get close again he puts away its been like this for more than a year. I dont think i can take it much longer. I think he really is scared of falling in love again because he once was and it didnt work out. Help me im stuck

Anonymous said...

i think its time to move on!

btw... im in a similar situation, but he just got out of a relationship about 6 weeks ago. He's my upstairs neighbor and we chilled a little when he was with her, but as soon as they broke up he came to me at this time for support. Ever since he came by that day when they broke up, he's been at my apt everyday. So i finally sat down with him a couple days ago and asked him what the deal is... we are in a relationship w/o being in a relationship. We said to each other that we did have feelings for one another, but he just can't back into a relationship right now. Understandable, so I told him that we need to spend sometime apart cause I dont want to get hurt. He told me that he loves hanging out with me and spending time with me, but He just can't be in a relationship right now. since then I've haven't given him as much attention as I was and to be honest with you.. it's working. Cause now I catch him staring at me more, his body language shows stronger signs of interest. I also let him now that there are other men that want to date me. just to make him realize that i'm not waiting around for him. sooo, seriouly girlfriend... move on. it's been like almost a year with you.

toodles,
P. Magnum

canary28 said...

Uhm, this situation is really like mine, except I had a chance to date with him for 1 week and we said our goodbye because he could not continue, he worried that he is unable to make me happy and feeling unfair for me :'(

It is really sad when you meet a great guy and he like you too, but unable to be with you :'(

I accepted his decision. I think I'll standby to wait for him until another great guy comes, if ever...

Anonymous said...

i am in a similar situation now. We've gone out for three months, finally i told him i loved him. he said he likes me a lot but can only offer friendship now. I just said ok and stopped communicating with him for two days. he started asking me how i was but i have not replied. i have fallen in love with him but obviously he has not fallen in love with me the same. I think space is the best thing for now so I could really think if i want to be with a man who cannot commit.

SweetWoman said...

Hi Dee there's a distant friend I've known for yrs and just recently we started hanging out after his mother's passing.The days we have seen eachother we madeout but never"had sex"and as Im layed on the couch he tells me"he's not ready for a relationship"..eventhough I didn't mention anything about being in a relationship.I never asked him why.However he made a joke about friends with benefits...he told me that I don't have to do anything I don't want to do.Problem is I really like him but will be remaining my distance...How do I tell him I don't want to kiss him or have any intamicy with him...without hurting his feelings....he's very"different"and takes things personal.However how do I remain my distance while still giving him my full support as a friend about his mother's recent passing?Thank You.

Anonymous said...

I'm also going through the same thing, it's a tad different, because the guy is getting over a bad relationship. It's been a while but he is VERY slow. We're best friends, and what's so hard about that is that we have been going through this.. what are we? Dating, friends, bf-gf? It's exhausting. Mainly because there were no clear boundaries to begin with. I want to be there for him as a friend, and he does me, but we both know that he has to heal and become himself again. It's hard to want him and want to be a friend, and he's finding it hard to label us dating, because he really wants to figure himself out.

So what has happened right now, is I told him I'm burnt out from all of this stuff, and need a break from him. I had a good cry, I've been trying to break the habit of him, like texting at certain times, or calling before bed like we always used to do.

I'm seeing things now that make me realize more of what I want/deserve in a relationship, while maintaining the friendship.

Hopefully he will become less self-focused eventually, but that's for him to do at his pace, and for me to be there for him, but not wait around for him either.

joyce.mulders said...

Hello everyone, so so happy that so many are experiencing teh same thing.

I still want to believe that the guy that I am seeing is REALLY not ready for a relationship but hope's to be ready for me eventually....but who am I fooling?

We are seeing eachother for 3 months now and I told him in the beginning that I wasn't ready for a relationship since i had just broke up ( and at that time I really wasn't )He told me that he wasn't in any hurry...which gave me the feeling that everything was cool and that he was kind of giving me my space and time.

We do nice together and he really spends quality time with me. ( shpopping, eating, swimming with friends..

A few days ago I asked him how he felt about relationships etc and he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship ( WTF ???) but that he really wants to spend time with me the way we are doing.

I don't get it....I didn't see that coming...of course I didn't tell himj that I was feeling more for him than in teh beginning since I don't want to push him away but can someone tell me if I should go on without him or if he will change his mind about not being ready...


Hope to hear from someone soon :)

Anonymous said...

Aww you guys, this has just happened to me. 3 months. Fun times. Roses and bouquets delivered to my door and by hand. Dates. Drinks. Cuddles. Perfect guy-everything I look for, plus more.

And then BAM "I'm not ready for a relationship, I can't give you what you deserve in a boyfriend etc. etc."

I've been clinging onto the hope that I can win him back since you know...he wants to hang out and take me to dinner still etc. He said he still wants to come to my uni ball with me if I still want him there and don't hate him. He still messaged me goodnight the past few nights. WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME?

But you know what? Reading through your experiences, they're all the same. The same lines, the same boys. If they were perfect they wouldn't've let us go.

I miss him, but we deserve better. Good luck girls x

Anonymous said...

Hi everybody,
well i am so happy to find this web.This is whats happened to me today.Benn dating guy 42 for last 6 weeks .All was beautiful,romantic,he was perfect and I thought hey maybe I won lottery with this guy.He asked me to go to his Christmas party,spend Christmas together and we book little weekend away trip together.Tonight without any warning he called-well at least he had balls to call and said the typical ITS NOT YOU IS ME I REALLY LIKE YOU AND YOU ARE REALLY SPECIAL PERSON BUT IAM JUST NOT READY FOR RELATIONSHIP!!!!!HE THOUGHT HE IS READY BUT FIND OUT HE IS NOT AND ASKED ME TO STAY FRIENDS!!!!
well i took it very calm way said i did really like him but if he made his mind I just going to delay his contacts and said its nice he want us to be friends but I am looking for boyfriend not a friend. WHAT IS ALL THIS ABOUT???? ANYBODY??? ANY OPINION???

Anonymous said...

*sob*


It really feels good too that people understand where i am coming from. I was in a relationship with someone i found myself falling in love with. I feel like an idiot because when we first got together he told me he was still in the process of " pushing people away" and I totally dismissed what he said and wanted to be with him. The fact is... it got weird... he stopped calling..replying to texts, and then he ultimately told me that he that he was still in love too much with his ex... then a week later ( which was today by the way) he hold me that he wanted to break up. That I was great and kind and really patient with him...but he couldn't feel like I he was draggin me down with him any more. he broke up with me saying that its not over forever and that he needs time to figure out whats going on in his life... Though somewhere in that mumbo jumbo it may sound really genuine... it still hurts to me... and doesnt make sence.... saying that things will still remain the same anyway. I dont understand why this is happening to me... Its so not fair.... Its ironic because for the first time in my life i actually feel emotionally ready completely to be in a relationship and i find myself utterly in love with the one man who cant feel the same way back... I really need some advice ladies... I dont know what to do... Should i stay friends and wait it out... or should i let him go and just move on.... I really love with man a lot.

Anonymous said...

Great forum to vent...We had been friends for a year before we started dating. After about a month, he seemed as if he was distancing. I expected a "cave" reaction, so I gave him space. A week later, he was frantically reaching out leaving v/m and text messages..."I adore you. I care so much about you. I'm not seeing anyone else. I think about you constantly. I miss you baby. We need some time for just us, Let's take a romantic cruise". The next day he and his kids came over for dinner and we had a great time but towards the end of the night,I got the impression he was headed back to the cave. Sure enough, didn't hear from him for several days. He sent me a message while I was at work stating he had a couple free minutes to take care of some minor home repairs he had previously agreed to. I surmised he intended to do the repairs while I was at work to absolve himself of guilt and avoid an awkward conversation about his decision not to persue a relationship. He completed the repairs so I left a heartfelt v/m expressing my appreciation, but I didn't receive a response. Days later, my kids(ages 15 and 17) asked about him so I informed them that we are still friends and we're leaving it like that. They assured me he was not in "friend"-mode and revealed that while making repairs, he initiated a "what if" conversation questioning their thoughts on various situations that involved us all living together. He also talked to them about achieving long-term goals, commenting that "your mother and I have high expectations because we know you can do it". Before I had a chance to speak with him, he showed up with a Christmas tree, got down my holiday decorations and hung the lights. That night I cooked dinner, we watched a movie, and then made plans for a get together the next night with his kids and mine. He cancelled last minute via text without explanation. It's been almost 2 weeks and I still haven't heard from him, not even a Merry Christmas!

Anonymous said...

I am going through the same situation as these other girls. I am heartbroken. I am 27 and I feel as emotional and as out of control as I was when I was 17. It has been about 8 months since I got out of a 6 year relationship. I was never interested in marriage or sure that I knew what love was. Than I meant Ryan. I can remember the second I meant him. It was like a movie. We dated non stop for two months with him ending it by telling me he didn't want this. For an entire month I slept on my floor and was depressed. New years day he contacted me and said he treated me terrbly and was so sorry. We went straight into a whirlwind romance! Another three months went by with him even telling me he loves me and thinks i am absolutly lovely. Now, he's done. He doesn't want a relationship but he still has the same feelings for me. I am even more devestated than I was before. He is my best friend. I don't know what to do. I wonder why he ever came into my life to just leave again. I know that things changed when all we did was fight about where this relationship was going. He says he wishes i would calm down and we wouldn't fight so much. He has never introduced me to a single person he knows yet they all know who I am. He has crushed me.

Anonymous said...

I hate much these stores sound like mine. I hate it because I know how much it hurts.

With me it was also a really good friend. We've both been divorced for a year or so (but I was separated for a couple of years before that). He went on a couple of dates with a girl, nothing serious. At a get together we found that we actually liked each other and had for a while but didn't see it. We were seeing each other for about two months. I knew he still liked the other girl as well but understood that he never had much of a chance to date since he had married young. Our 'thing' being so undefined did eat at me though. I wasn't expecting anything exclusive and was willing to be patient to see how things turned out.

Come to find out now that he doesn't think he is ready for a relationship yet. But that he can imagine how we'd be together and it would be good. So I feel like I was rejected for being the right girl and it is so confusing and so hard. Thing is I can understand that it hasn't been that long since his divorce and that he didn't feel quite right about dating more than one person. But, thinking we'd have a great relationship and that he sees me as a real keeper just confuses me to no end. And it hurts so much and makes it hard to go back to being a good friend. I just feel so embarrassed that I fell so hard.

Anonymous said...

Omg it hurts me to see how many people out there are going through the same thing as I am. I met this guy last November. He asked for my number and began to text me everyday. Then I found out that he had just fallen out from his first relationship. We began dating as what he said we were "part time lovers". We spent everyday together until Feb this year. He told me he wasn't ready for a relationship.... It breaks my heart to hear that. Once awhile he still mentions about his ex gf. I guess he have not moved on.. I've decided to remain best friends with him, although i do still hope that we'd work out someday..

Anonymous said...

Girls, I have never posted anything online like this before. In fact girls, I'm a guy!

In fact, I'm a gay guy, who has had his share of relationships with guys, with many different experiences. I ache with all of you for how men can treat women (and other men) in relationships, leaving a trail of great confusion, uncertainty, and broken dreams. It isn't fair, and we deserve better, much better.

I recently had a wonderful romance with a beautiful guy. I felt that, finally, I did everything kinda "right"...I was not over the top, I let him lead at his comfort, I was warm but not clingy, comfortable with distance, and didn't freak out over any small thing. I was supportive, just went with the flow, and remained myself. And this guy ADORED me for it! Gosh, the things he would tell me, genuinely meaning them at the time while he was caught up in the emotion...the future together he saw for us, the happiness in his life because of me, his desire to "put a ring on it" one day, that I was his number one and he wanted nobody else, that he wanted to be exclusive with me, etc etc. He would call, TXT, email, and all so regularly, and told me in many explicit ways he felt ready for a relationship.

Thankfully, somewhere in the back of my mind, from experience, I reminded myself that guys can say ANYTHING, and fulfil nothing. Sadly, it seems I'm always right! Out of the blue, after being ecstatically in love, he is no longer "ready for a relationship" and is "too busy with everything else in his life"...amazing! I remained consistently who I was, steady, not over the top, not boring, just cool and collected. Yet overnight, what a transformation!!

At least I have the peace of knowing that this was not based on "me" - I was who I was, the same person he fell in love with. BUt I must also now respect myself and my dignity enough to move on, to not allow myself to be under the control of someone else's influence so greatly, and to send the message loud and clear that my life is fabulous and fantastic with or without him.

It is hard, oh so hard, to let go of those "perfect guys", the ones you thought you were "meant" to meet and be with forever. It is hard to let go of shattered dreams. BUt we must believe in ourselves enough to not fall into love whilst sacrificing our happiness and our best interests at the same time.

Good luck to you all! I admire women so much for the crud they put up with from men. We'll all get through, and we'll come out strong, and we'll all find happiness within ourselves that one day we can also share with another.

Peace.
Bbc

Anonymous said...

Aww Bbc, it's great to hear from a guys perspective. I'm going through this too. We've known each other since last Sept. We lived in different cities but kept in touch. I eventually moved to his city for work and he chased me the day before I arrived AND called me the night I arrived wanting to see me. That was back in March and we were together up until 3 weeks ago. Happily together and had such great chemistry. He even insisted on meeting my friends who were visiting from out of town. Whenever we were out and women would approach he would make sure to introduce me so they knew. We never had the relationship talk, but were dating exclusively. We spent one of the funnest weekends together. By that Tuesday he was acting strange. Taking long to return emails etc. I didn't want to drag it out, so by Friday, I straight up asked him "whats up?" In which he hit me with the "I'm not ready for something serious" even though "everything was great with us" and I'm "beautiful, smart, funny, great" etc. So I told him to take some time and 2 days later he emailed saying he "was thinking about me and feeling down. And if I wanted to talk, he was there" We exchanged one more email and haven't talked since. I'm not sure if he wanted to talk or not, but I never called. I know he's uncomfortable with his finances right now, but I can't for the life of me understand why he would sabotage a good thing. In my experience if a man really wants you, he will come and get you. I feel it's best if I let him go. If he really cares about me, he will come back. If he doesn't come back, he didn't care that much to begin with. Best of luck to everyone. xo

HotCold said...

Wow, I've read everyone's comments over the past 2 years and am in the same situation too! I've been seeing someone for 7 months off and on. He's told me from the beginning that he's not ready for a relationship and that he wants to take it slow. We have. I was clingy at first and scared him off. He came back though after 6 wks or so. We've consistently been seeing each other(including sex) once or twice a month. It has been progressing very slowly which is fine with me, we are both working on personal growth. Someone asked if we are dating and he freaked out and said he doesn't want to date. He can only handle friends right now. That was two weeks ago. I've totally backed off. When I have over the past several months he comes back especially when I go away for the weekend or vacation. I just signed up on Match for just one month so I can get my mind off of him. He might be the one or not. I'm at the point where I need him to really want me. One minute he does and then the next he is distant and cold. He knows he is and hates the way he treats me and is working on it. I'm just taking it one day at a time. Thanks for all your shares.

miriamgardener said...

wow- I am so happy to have found this site. sigh, unfortunatley I'm not alone in this situation, I've been bugging my friends and co-workers for advice but it's not the same as someone who has gone through this.

So I too, met a beautiful guy that I liked and he liked me too instantly. It was very passionate at first, then he stopped calling. When I confronted him he said he was not ready for a relationship, so feeling rejected I said it was fine, and went on vacation.
We initially met on a dating website but didn't physically meet until by chance, we have mutual friends/acquaintances.
He kept pursuing me so I gave in. I hadn't met anyone I truly liked since my ex of 5 years and I broke up about a year previous.
So all through the summer we have been going on dates, at first we would always make out passionately, had sex twice. We truly desire each other, and our personalities truly match.
I have thought about just cutting him off, but think this is a beautiful person so we could just be friends?
For now, after 4 months, I am strictly treating it as a friendship. If he can't have a relationship with me then no sex either, or holding hands or kissing.
We hung out this past Sunday and I made it a point to keep it strictly platonic.
I can't handle being in the middle of a non-relationship it's too confusing and an emotional roller coaster I simply can't and shouldn't handle.
For my personal growth, I do things for myself, and I am not dating anyone because I haven't met anyone yet, but I seriously can not waste my time.
We deserve better ladies--- and believe me I know the pain :(

Anonymous said...

OMG... Is this an epidemic or something? I'm going through that too. We dated a little bit. At one point, he even said he'd been thinking if he was ready and thought that he was. Then he invited me to meet with his parents. I NEVER asked for anything. He was the one who initiated all of this. Then out of nowhere, he told me he wasn't ready to commit. And I wasn't even asking him to commit. I only wanted to go out, get to know each other and then see where things go. But he didn't even give a chance for this relationship to explore itself. He made me feel like such a fool. I thought he wanted the relationship to develop since he invited me to meet with his parents. And I was doing everything right because I learned from my past experience. I wasn't pushy or clingy. I communicated but never over-communicated. I listened and kept my own talk to minimum because I knew guys wouldn't like when we girls go on and on forever. I allowed him to set the pace of the relationship, however fast/slow he wanted to move. Then he was still not ready! Why asked me out if you weren't ready? That's what men do: they confuse us.

HotCold said...

Hi Anonymous. Same thing happened to me. It's hard. I see him at social events. it was really uncomfortable for a while, now it's getting better. I'm hoping we can be friends and play tennis again and then see what happens. I just leave him alone, make him wonder what I'm doing. Are you still friends or cut off all communication?

Anonymous said...

hello dee... im on the same situation ...and its very sad...im in love with this guy who i`ve been seeing for 3 months and whos is not ready to be my bf....
we been intimate, he does kisses me infront of his friends both male and female, but he classify us as just friends...not fbw beacause he sees me more than just a sexual thing so...thats wut he told me... when i told him i love him he was surprised and he just said that he just didnt want to hurt me... before that i tried to tell him we were done because i dont want to be like this... he said that it really made him sad to know i was pulling away from him so i said well ok...
he contacts me more now that he knows im in love with him... he is a person who hides his feelings so i dont really know how he feels...
last time we hanged out he was calling me babe and he wanted me to stay at his house bt i refused cuz he still lives with his parents...he is just 22...so.
i told him i`ll stay next time....he gets jealouse of other guys....he is the one who calls or txt when he gets off work... onced he asked me to take him lunch at work wich i did....he is very sweet...bt this situation gets me so confused....cuz we do all the bf-gf thing except we r just friends.... idk wut to do ....i really need help .... btw....im 19

Anonymous said...

Pretty much the same thing happened to me. The good or I guess bad thing is that we're living in different cities (same home town) for uni, and don't get to see each other much now. What I want to know is... what happened between you and the other guy after that? Also, it'd be so great to have some guy's view on this. I can't stop wondering whether it's just the guy language for 'you're not good enough but i'm not going to say it'.

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mgarner said...

It's been 2 months since I spoke to this guy, I still think about him but refuse to contact. What's the point?
He said he's not ready, and even if I see him with another girl, I don't care anymore. He can mistreat her all the same, it's sad. I'm moving on, with or without him, though I still think of him everyday, but I'm being realistic!
good luck ya'll

Anonymous said...

So I'm in a similar situation. I've been going to school with this guy for awhile, it wasn't until recently that we started talking. At this point my bf had just broken up with me but I was gonna break up with him, so it was ok. He had just broken up with his gf, he did the breaking up. So we started talking almost every night on online chat and were totally flirting with one another. After a week or two of flirting I plain out asked me if he liked him. I did this after I consulted his best guy friends who is one of my friends. He responded yes, but said he didn't want to hurt his ex's feelings, that he still wanted to be friends with her. I understood this, still being friends with my ex. So we tried to go on a date but it failed so we ended up back at my house were we hung out for awhile. It seemed like we were totally hitting it off. Then we both got slammed with huge projects and we didn't talk online as much. So we talked when ever we had free time. Now earlier this week he drops a bombshell..."I'm not ready for a relationship right now." I'm worried that means that he doesn't like me anymore.Then I got to thinking that he will come back and sweep me off my feet. After seeing all of these comments I'm thinking now that I will back off and see what happens. I'm worried nothing will and he'll go off to college and I'll never see him again. Why must boys be so confusing!

Anonymous said...

Same thing happened to me. He wasn’t even my type. I actually took a break from my ex so that I can focus on my career. But for some crazy reason, we ended up having a connection. He told me that it was so rare to meet a girl who has both looks and personality and nice. So I didn’t think anything of it because I didn’t take him too seriously. When I saw that he was getting more attached to me, I told him that I took a break from my ex to focus on my career and that I may still end up marrying him when im done with school. He thanked me for telling him, but it didn’t stop him from falling for me. We spent the summer together and had the most amazing time. he even told me that I was the love of his life and constantly told me that he loved me and missed me. He brought me around his family and friends almost immediately and talked as if we were in a relationship. This scared me because I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship. We both said it from the start. He was also focusing on his career too, but didn’t want to lose me. He didn’t have a job. So I was given this opportunity to work on this project and had him help me. It was a very intense project which caused us to argue a little bit. But right before this project was over, he found an intense restaurant job which causes him to be extremely busy and doesn’t allow him to have his phone on him. It was him who talked like we were in a relationship, and then when he started working, told me that he wanted to focus on his work and that he’s not ready for a relationship. He disappeared on me for a week. I was cool about it. Didn’t text him right away because I completely understood what he was going through. I started to miss him terribly because I couldn’t control this connection I had with him. I was miserable, but didn’t lose my cool. My ex somehow came back into the picture and proposed to me. I realized that my ex would never hurt me..and when he asked me…I ended up saying yes. I was in shock for a few weeks. Then I debated on whether I should say anything. He would text me out of the blue once a week, saying that he’s been thinking a lot about me.. so I ended up telling him that I can tell he’s not ready for a relationship, let alone marriage and that it looks like he wants me to move on. I told him my ex proposed. He was sad, upset …and then cool about it …so he portrays. Now he wont even respond to my texts…as if he’s over me. Im perplexed. Did he really want me to move on? Did he lose interest? Was he testing my loyalty? Is he mad at me? Does he really want us to be friends? Totally perplexed!

Anonymous said...

I took a break from my ex “B” so that I can focus on school. But somehow I met “C” in school and had this amazing connection. “C” told me that it was rare to meet a girl who has looks and personality. When I saw that he was getting more attached to me, I told him that I took a break from my ex to focus on school and that I may still end up marrying him when im done. He thanked me for telling him, but it didn’t stop him from falling for me. We spent the summer together and had the most amazing time. he even told me that I was the love of his life and constantly told me that he loved me and missed me. He brought me around his family and friends almost immediately and talked as if we were in a relationship. This scared me because I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship. We both said it from the start. He was also focusing on his career too, but didn’t want to lose me. He didn’t have a job.
So I was given this opportunity to work on this project and had him help me. It was a very intense project which caused us to argue. But right before this project was over, he found an intense restaurant job which causes him to be extremely busy and doesn’t allow him to have his phone on him. It was him who talked like we were in a relationship, and then when he started working, told me that he wanted to focus on his work and that he’s not ready for a relationship. He disappeared on me for a week. I was cool about it. I started to miss him terribly because I couldn’t control this connection I had with him. I was miserable, but didn’t lose my cool. My ex somehow came back into the picture and proposed to me. I realized that my ex would never hurt me so I said yes. I was in shock for a few weeks. “C” would text me out of the blue once a week, saying that he’s been thinking a lot about me.. so I ended up telling him that I can tell he’s not ready for a relationship, let alone marriage and that it looks like he wants me to move on. So I told him my ex proposed. He was sad, upset …and then cool about it. Now he wont even respond to my texts…as if he’s over me. Did he really want me to move on? Did he lose interest? Was he testing my loyalty? Is he mad at me? Totally perplexed!

Occo said...

This all sounds familiar except not in the way that most of you experienced it... a while ago I was talking to my romantic interest and it's been twice that I had to tell him I wasn't ready. The first time subtly, the second time more openly. I had to adjust myself after I heard his honesty in the second conversation, and we've been just *slightly* closer since. (He seems much happier)

Yeah, so... from the perspective of a girl who is the one saying "I am not ready for a relationship" feel free to ask me on my take on things... cause it's pretty true, I'm really not ready. And I don't care if it's fear of commitment or not, I just don't think the time is right, and I don't feel safe going any further than friends right now. It doesn't mean I care about him less.

Jim said...

"He actually should've told you a long time ago he didn't want a relationship. Seriously! He should've blurted that out the very second you two started talking about feelings of any kind."

Actually, it's possible he didn't know he wasn't ready for a relationship at that time. She didn't share his reasons (he could've been confused, or something could've come up in his life), so it could be any number of things during a situation like this.

Anonymous said...

...well here we are...r words: relationship, not ready ... mostly brought up by men the moment they feel they 'lose' their 'freedom'. First they hunt us then they go back into their cave and leave us back in utter irritation, and worse: it was not us using the R word. They have feelings, and yes their attraction to us does not always have to be physical, but who really wants to know that, as they don't even know it often them selves :) Well, the only thing is to not take this too serious, I had times I took it serious and it went down the hill. Now he had the reason to say, "SEE, I WAS RIGHT!She wants to eat me!" I was not amused and hurt and then the moment detachment showed up he came back. I followed it for a while with interest and realized if I had attached back the same game would start again. He was ready for the second round! Using the R words after he realized he let his guard down too much. SO all I did was to just let him blablablala because they often don't remember what they all say. So why to take that serious! I treated him like furniture but of course a bit nicer;) We did have sometimes serious talks and he took it well and we always enjoyed a LOT to be together. The moment he started the R word I made fun of it, like.... 'well actually I thought to do a pre- engagement party next week, what do you think whom we have to invite?' They are not stupid, but 'cavemen' have their own rules and if you are in love with this kind of specimen, you need patience, a lot of self confidence, humor and don't take his remarks too serious. You know WHO you are, and if he was so smart to analize everything correctly he would already be in the best partnership ever with you or an another woman! The moment a man starts talking about his feelings he is serious in this very moment and that makes us believe it will last. Because most of us when we talk about our feelings it is not for a moment but for that man! That's a bit different. If you think you want to stay with him, you need DETACHMENT and being honest to your self. Men who ask for being 'friends only' after they hit on us mean it.There is no problem being friends 'only'. But for us this pulling back is hurtful. With detachment you can be friends only, and don't forget they are humans too and they have their feelings too. They do FEEL detachment and once you have reached that you will feel much better too and the situation is getting more relaxed and your vibes are shifting. I stopped texting too much or writing mails too much. I did some to keep the communication, but i kept it LIGHT. No strings attached. And he was in his comfort zone. Only from his comfort zone will he start going into his 'R-zone". And if not with you then with another one who really gives a fiddle what he blubbers all day long about this subject. Try detachment and focus on things you love to do and don't give him even a hint of an idea he is first priority! Well... meanwhile I am in a wonderful partnership with him and I almost forgot to tell you, I also hate the R word!

Anonymous said...

Very similar words from my now ex... "I am in love with you still, I meant everything I've said to you, this tears me apart..." But... "I'm just not ready, I don't want to be a disappointment, want to concentrate on my career and don't think I can give you the time you would need etc..." (I am fully aware of his commitments and already taken these into consideration and could quite happily live with them)
What is different in my situation is the fact that I have a child and it is because of this that he is saying he isn't ready. This makes it so hard to accept because if i didn;t have a child he is saying things would be different. He says he is just afriad of being a part of a small persons life, but if he felt so strongly about me wouldn;t he be prepared to just take it really slowly and at least 'try'??? He is saying the same stuff as other posts I've read too...that he still wants me to be a part of his life, talk to me and still meet up sometimes. Sound familiar? It seems they are all saying the same thing! Everyone that knows us is shocked because we are so perfect together. I can't bear the thought of not seeing him but at the same time don't think I can still have contact with him coz it hurts so much coz I;m deeply in love with him aqnd he is the first person I have ever felt safe and secure with and opened up to etc...
Sob :(

Anonymous said...

not really different. I have a daughter too and would never have thought that his reluctance was because of my child. If that had been the case I would not have been interested in him at all! There is no way I would compromise ANYTHING against my daughter. The fact is that I am very independent, have my own business and I am a workaholic and have a social life and many interests:) I do however get it that the moment a man feels that he has to take over those ' family nduties' they might pull out. My daughter was never an issue when we started dating. He knew it that she is number one in my life and I can handle this alone very well, as I always handled it. And above all I love myself more than anything including my daughter. If I don;t love myself most how can I love someone else unconditionally? When there is a time where he draws back I would fully accept it, as hard as it is and discuss your pain with a close friend and no one else. And I would not back up, don't call, don't text, don't mail. Play dead. Mostly they come out after 90 days... Mine did after 122 days. It is not easy to date as a single mother but for sure it is not about the child, just the feeling the other one gets if you might seem 'needy'... they do dislike that! Normally guys want to date singles and you are single, so nothing to do in the beginning with your child. This has to grow as that is a huge responsibility for anyone!

Anonymous said...

First time to post a comment on the web--yea! It's amazing that I have finally found a site that answers the question perfectly. If you really love someone, you have to let them go. This is one of the hardest things I will have to do--but love is patience.

We are good friends--he's funny, brilliant, and kind. But on the flip side he can be moody and distant--I'm not sure what he wants. He has emotional baggage--he has been hurt in the past and I think that he is afraid of making the same mistake again(I remind him of an old girlfriend--in appearance and personality--but I can't help that!).

He knows how I feel for him. He pursued me first. We dated briefly--I had to change plans for the second date because my mother was ill...I think that bothered him and ever since then..no dates. I actually work with him which makes it harder. And what's worse is that he appears to being showing interest in another coworker of mine. He has told me that he has no desire for dating, realationships, or marriage--he has told me this before we dated and after...His actions imply that he is interested, so I feel like a giant ball of frustration.

Bottom line is that he is afraid of commitment. He's older and setting his ways--and yet despite all this I can accept him for who he is.
He's my buddy.

So I kept asking myself "What am I doing wrong?". I have tried to be a good friend and tried to help him with his life. I realise now that I need to back off and let him live his life the way he wants to--whether it be alone or with another. All I can hope and pray for is that his heart will be opened up. I want him to live again.

Everyone, I wish you the best of luck. This is a painful process. I don't understand why it happens--but I am a stronger person because of this.(Yet deep down my lost teenage self screams--"Oh I wish he would love me!")

Never give up hope.
If it's meant to be it will happen.

Kelsey said...

I'm in the same situation. I'm glad to know others have gone through this and that I'm not alone. I dated this guy for seven months, and we decided to stop dating just yesterday because I want a relationship and he doesn't. He says he's young and he wants to be single now. He's 21. I have fallen in love with him, so I am torn inside. He said he didnt want to date me if it meant him stringing me along and hurting me. So we decided to just remain friends. Problem is I love him. So much. When we talked yesterday he actually teared up saying I mean a lot more to him than I think, and that he wasn't just losing a lover, but a best friend as well. I don't know if he loves me. I feel like if he did he would want to date me officially. I'm completely torn up inside. I don't know if I should still be his friend. He said he wants to keep me in his life for years to come. He also says that this isbt over, but that our relationship has to change "for now". Do I back off? Stop talking to him? If he actually cares will he come back to me? I'm stuck. I'm so confused. I love him with all my heart, and I just don't know what to do. I mean he did tear up, that must mean something, right? Sigh. I'm so confused :( please help

Anonymous said...

Like all of the people on here I met a guy. Not just any guy but the Guy. He is short not very handsome and totally not my type but after weeks of being friends he asked me out and I said yes.

Now here is where it starts to go wrong. I don't trust people in fact I find it very hard to be trustful of anyone but her was different and I fell head over heels. I found my soul mate. One week over very solid dating he never wanted to leave he told me he loved me. He expressed his thoughts and feelings and I mine. I told him things no one else knew. Then something urgent comes up with work and he does not answer his phone etc I am being dumped

When he finally does call me he says I am not ready for a relationship right now with anyone but can we still be friends.

I was crushed and hurt and tried to tell him how I felt to no avail. I feel used and I guess this is just what these guys are Users.

Jean Yuss said...

Dee is wrong. There's no need to be so dramatic about it. Stop watching so much Sex and the City. The guys obviously like most of you women. He's a) unfortunately presently feeling like his ability to manage a relationshipship in whatever transitional stage in his life he's in does not meet his standards of quality as determined by HOW MUCH HE LIKES YOU, b) excited as you about the prospect of an ideal situation in which you two CAN be together, and c) man enough to admit that he's got things to work on before he can completely fulfill the role he's wanting to take on, in a fashion that is, in his opinion, WHAT YOU DESERVE. To know another, one must know oneself. To love another, one must love oneself. How wonderful to have found a man who knows himself well enough to know that his wings are not quite dry, and how selfish of you women for being so impatient. He wants to be better than he is and more ready than he is because he knows YOU DESERVE IT. If he's dragging you along by being physical while avoiding a commitment it's one thing (but also completely within your control to change); if he's COMMUNICATED to you how he feels once he was able to fully understand it, then he's done his part. Quit being such drama queens and give him some room to grow. In a couple months, or years if you really love him enough to be patient, either what you loved and let go will come back for you to keep, or you'll end up with something even better for you. Don't force puzzle pieces together. They have an order. Stop freaking out about your eggs drying up and let your men enjoy their youth and grow into the men they want to be, and do everything they want to do before they give themselves completely to YOU.

Anonymous said...

Hey, I have no idea whether this comment is a little too late. But like all the girls here said, its so nice to know that ur not alone. I actually been with my boyfriend for two years, but its long distance, he's in China, and I'm in Australia. So its tough. So I went on a date with this guy T last week, I actually had a little crush on him since last year, the first date went great, not much physical going on, but we did hold hands. I was ready to dump my bf for him. I mean I know its bitchy of me and selfish, but I didn't want to dump my boyfriend who's also my best friend and who has always been there for me, if I'm not sure T was going to pan out. After the first date, T texted me lots, but then few days later...poof he dissappeared. So I texted him, whats the deal? And he's like ur a very nice girl but I'm not ready for a serious relationship. I was really hurt.

I told my boyfriend that I liked another guy, but couldn't bear to tell him that I actually went on a date.

So i guess im stuck with my long distance boyfriend. I am never dating boys in Aus anymore.

After T, I'm disillusioned in love. It seems impossible to be in a relationship full of passion and love.

I guess I'll rather be in a loveless relationship with my long time boyfriend than be alone.

I know its pathetic.

But well thats the truth.

I need companionship.

Anonymous said...

Reading all of these stories has given me the strength to move on from my boy.

And it's not giving up on him, it's giving him the chance to decide what is really important in his life, and if he wants me to be apart of it.

Anonymous said...

I know this is an old post, but I felt compelled to comment because I AM the guy in this situation (not this exact situation, but one identical to it). It seems like everyone blames the guy for "leading her on" or whatever, but the truth of the matter is that guys can be just as emotional as girls when it comes to relationships.

In my case, I'm not ready for a relationship because of a really bad fallout between me and my lifelong best friend that happened back in February. Despite the fact that the girl I've been flirting with and going on dates with doesn't have anything to do with that situation, it's still really hard for me to trust anyone right now. And even harder to give my heart to someone.

Just take that into consideration before you freak out too much, because honestly, it may not be you. He may really have deeper problems that just haven't surfaced yet.

hippo said...

OMG. i know this is an old post but i just recently found myself in this situation and I am in major need of advice. I have read every single post in this thread but just didn't find one that fits me.
So I've been seeing this guy for a year and a half give or take. And everything is going fine, i thought the relationship was meant to be.
And then suddenly, out of the blue he blurts out that he realize he just "isn't ready for a relationship". And I know in most cases, its probably because he lost the feeling but i know for sure that it's not because of that. After all a guy wouldn't cry for a girl while saying " i love you" right? (especially considering their huge ego, yes guys admit it).
I was so dumbfounded i didn't know what to do. So I took Dee's advice and give the guy some "space". To see if he's really ready to let me and the relationship go. After a few days he started looking for me again, and well the conversation went superb but at the end of it all he decided to end it anyway.
What i dont get is why? It is his first relationship so I could relate to it. But i have fallen head over heels, in love and went through so much things with him, how could I just let it all go? I am so confused I dont know what to do now. Should I wait for him cause I know he still loves me too? Please help.

Anonymous said...

I find it very complicated to read all this. I had this guy who I've met through some kind of video game about four years ago, and I met him about 1 year ago irl. He started being very VERY nice to me, and the second time I saw him, we were all hugging. Third time I had my first kiss ever. However, we met each other this week again, and some of his friends were coming on one of those days, too. They were being told that we were bf-gf, which I thought was true because he told me that he loved me, and so did I. He kissed me in front of the ppl so I thought it was alright. However, I don't really have a good health and he knows. I had a terrible ache the day after and he took care of me as good as possible. After a while he started touching me and I so did I. But then, the last day on which I was going home again (that was yesterday) he was really really quiet. His best friend was with us too, and I know him well. When he said he had to go somewhere for a sec, me and his friend sat down to wait for him. I asked him why the guy I love was so quiet and he didn't know either. When he came back, his friend told us to have a word with each other. I asked him what was on his mind, and then he told me he wasn't ready for a relation yet. I was shocked and hurt. Of course, it would've been better to tell me now instead of when we did more, but still... Didn't those kisses mean anything? I can't sleep now and feel terrible. I don't know what to do. I need time, and so does he. He told me he'll still be coming over in a few weeks, but still.. I'm broken. I just need him, but don't try to look desperate. Was my health in the way? Was I too skinny? Was it me at all? I feel like I wasn't good enough. What to do?

Anonymous said...

i'm on the same situation right now. at first we get along together very well. we act as if we a couple. he initiated it, aying sweet words to me. asking for us to be together forever. i belived him adn i fell in love with him. but then one day he just told me "you are special, but i'm not ready for a commitment". and that's it everything change. he's been avoiding me since then. but i still love him and still hoping that he felt the same. =( imiss him terribly.

mgarner said...

It's been a year since my ex and I talked/saw each other- and I still think about him everyday. It still hurts. I can accept the situation, but I still love him.
It is difficult moving on, difficult trusting the next man, but I am dating someone and my distrust always surfaces.
It's hard, falling in love with someone that isn't ready to take any further steps. It's a lesson learned though.

ah- life!

Anonymous said...

I was in the same situation. It's hard, but I respect him because he did not lead me on. I think it would be good to heed the words from the guy who posted here on 7/11/11. I think it would also be good to get on the e-mail list of Christian Carter, and no, I'm not affiliated with his company; so I hope this part doesn't get edited out. It helped me see things from a guy's point of view. I'm not surprised anymore that our situation is so common, like an epidemic as someone said. There are reasons for it that may not have occurred to you, and the guy might not even know what it is or be able to put his finger on it.

I think we should never assume or feel that it's exclusive or heading towards anything serious, no matter what his actions, unless the guy gives you everything that you need and deserve. Before that time, be involved in other things and other people, including other guys but only if you're feeling up to meeting other people. If he sees that you have your own life and happy, he may come to you if he's feeling it and when he's ready, and he has to feel safe. But be prepared for the fact that he may never be ready, or if he is, it will be with another person. That is hard to hear, I know, and I wouldn't like hearing it either should it come to that. But I wish you ladies all the best. I do know what you're going through and feel your pain as I went through it myself. Stay strong.

spylove said...

So for 4 months everything is perfect. Then after I mention I'd like to see him more, he says he doesn't feel the need to so its better if we have a break- he says he isnt ready for a relationship. Isn't over his ex from 2 years ago, but im the closest he has been to a girl since then... he doesn't get why he can't get over it, he feels lost and confused, some days he wants to be with me other days he doesn't. I want to be with him, and i don't want to give up. I want to beleive that with time he will love me, but how can I show him he just needs to open up and give me a chance ? He tried so much and was perfect to me for 4 months, how has it changed all of a sudden? I just don't get it!

funnyfemale said...

Its so sad to see so many women being treated like dirt! It really angers me because I'm one of those women, except for the fact that once I started catching on to this guys game, I completely cut him off right then and there. But I'm still confused. He's the one who persued me in the first place. Like WTF! He started hitting on me through facebook and after a few days he gave me his number. He seemed like a genuine nice guy. I turned him down a few times when he asked me to hang out, but after a few attempts, I finally gave in. He fed me all this crap about how beautiful and smart and funny and sweet he thought I was. After the third time we hung out, he completely ignored me. He stopped responding to me on facebook and text, which wasn't like him at all. I ended up confronting him as to why he was acting like I didn't exist all of a sudden. I said "why did you beg me to hang out with you and ask me out on dates if you knew you weren't "ready for a relationship"? He tried to convince me that I was just overreacting, but he ended up apologizing anyway. And as childish as this may come across, I asked him why he would answer everyone else on facebook and tell them "hi" but didn't bother to say "hey" to me. I told him that I fully understood that we were not even dating, but that it was very rude of him to blatantly ignore me. In the end I basically told him to buzz off altogether cuz I don't need people like him in my life. We would probably still be friends right now if he would have just been upfront in the first place instead of trying to make me think he actually wanted a relationship with me. Don't lead people on and expect them to still waste their time on you. The old saying "its not you, its me" is such a weak excuse and is a total lie. if you don't like me then that's fine, but don't toy with me cuz I don't give second chances no matter how much I like you! So not worth my time.

Anonymous said...

Dear funnyfemale,

I feel your pain. The man pursued me in the first place and after the third time we hung out, like your situation, did a 180. Perhaps it was your guy's and my guy's egos that drove them to pursue us. I wish he had told me earlier that he wasn't ready because I'm pretty sure he knew.

The best advice I can give you is to please get on the email list of Christian Carter. It helped me see things through their perspective and gave a way to deal with these very distressing situations when they suddenly do a 180.

crysnico said...

Oh man. I'm having the same.problem. except I've become best friends with my guy. I've known him for about 7years. And we both say we love each other.. all our friends say he is "my guy" or I'm "his girl". I don't mind that because most times it seems like that is the situation. He is usually so good to me. I know he cares about me. He goes above and beyond for me. Well about 3weeks ago we were hanging out and he just started kissing me and it felt good. It felt right. Well we were fine afterwards. Nothing felt weird. And we still remain close. But he just keeps telling me he loves me. He needs me around-the-clock; just acting the "boyfriend" part. But in the same breath he tells me "I love you but I don't want to complicate our relationship too much. I don't want anything to change." What am I supposed to do? Please help. And we aren't a couple at all just seems that way. Lately other guys ask me out on dates or whatever...but I always say no or I can't. I would like to. But he's the first option. Do I wait for him until he's ready and let life pass me by? He is my best friend and I love him dearly. I just don't know what to do. ): I wanna date but I don't wanna upset him or have him think harsh of me. Help please.

Anonymous said...

Dear crysnico,

Yes! Accept the dates with the other guys. Your best friend isn't ready, perhaps not mature enough to handle a real relationsthip. You can let him know to tell you when he is ready, but in the meantime go out with the other guys. If your best friend finds out and can't handle that, then he wasn't yours to begin with no matter how it seems. You don't want to pass up other opportunities, waiting for one guy to wake up. :)

crysnico said...

Thank you. You are very right. I'm 22 years old and ill be okay. He should understand that it isn't right to treat me this way nor is it okay to expect me to wait until he is ready (if he will ever be ready) I love him with my whole heart but it looks like I'm hurting myself by continuously putting up with it. Thank you so much. Its good to know I'm not alone and someone else understands. I appreciate it.

Anonymous said...

After reading all these posts i guess i'm still at a loss of how to move forward, I've been seeing a guy for the past month and a half and to begin with things were perfect. We would chat for hours every night and meet up about four times a week. In my mind it did get a bit too intense but we chatted about this, we are very open and comfortable with each other...there is nothing really we can't say and he even said that he really liked me and that he had never connected with someone like he had with me. He said he didn't want to mess anything up with me, to take things slow and we both agreed to wait to be intimate.

He took me to meet his parents after three weeks together but then the week after that he went all distant and cold, wouldn't hear from him for a few days but i tried to give him space because i know men often back off. We would still meet up and i made a conscious effort to slow things down, but he's very affectionate always trying to take my hand or kiss me on the forehead, really sweet things. Anyway we started meeting up less often and i could just feel him pulling away even more...

I left him be for a while but then last week we had an honest and open chat about everything and he said he thought he needed a break from relationships (broke up with his ex 6 weeks before he met me-she was a bit of physcho from what i can tell-very high maintenance and it ended badly) said he didn't want all the things that came with a relationship ie losing space freedom etc. we calmly chatted about thigs we valued, i.e being independant and having our own lives and he said maybe he was making too big a deal out of things... but he said he was still confused and i didn't deserve to wait around while he was being wishy washy. We talked about where we could from there and that maybe we could be friends and then he said maybe he was being too hasty and could he see me soon?

I had plans for most of the week but let him know the day i was free which is today....and i haven't heard from him since? Should i give him more space? i think hes genuine and a really good guy, he said the timings all off, that he's not trying to keep me on the side and that he wouldn't want to see me if he didn't think it could work in the future?

where do i go from this? help needed please!

Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,

He's keeping you hanging by hedging his bets. I think he's hedging his bets by saying he's not trying to keep you on the side and that he wouldn't want to see you if he didn't think it could work in the future. And hedging his bets is working. He gets to stay away from a relationship and he gets to leave the door open with you by letting you think it could work in the future in case he ever decides to have this future he talks about which he probably never will. Unless something drastic changes. Something as major as an earthquake. But we don't wait around for earthquakes every day, do we? Similarly, you can't wait around for him. He shouldn't hedge his bets like that. It's not fair to you. That's not what you were looking for or want.

I suggest you get on the email list of Christian Carter and also the email list of Rori Raye and read their emails. It will help you see what's going on with him and find a way not to focus on him. At this point you have no choice but to give him space and in fact, you have to move on.

I know you said he's a really good guy but you deserve better treatment!! Good luck.

Anonymous said...

Same situation... Except we are both divorced. I asked for mine... He didn't. His wife cheated but he's been divorced a full year. Things are great for 3.5 months - same career each with a kid the same age. Felt him pulling away and asked him about it. Told me I was wonderful but feels like I'm pushing for more... I told him I wasn't which was true. Things are good for a little bit then he ends it saying he can't do this right now. He knows he needs to move on but he's not ready. I thought we could stay friends... He has cut me completely off. I get he's not ready but why not stay in limited contact? He did contact me about a month ago to say he has missed me and he was trying to be up front with me. He never meant to treat me unfairly. I emailed him a couple of times after that.... Nothing. Any thoughts?

Anonymous said...

It sounds just like my situation because he's divorced. I believe you when you said you weren't pushing for more. I wasn't pushing either. My friend told me he probably doesn't know how to be friends. So that's what I would think in your situation. He doesn't (men don't) know how to be friends, so how does he stay in limited contact? I feel for you. I'm trying to forget him now. Maybe he'll come back but not going to wait for him. I have my life to live and so do you. Truth is, he may never ever, ever get over the end of his marriage. Right? Or wrong? I mean, you've been through a divorce, so you would know or maybe you know others who are divorced. And if you think back, maybe you'll realize that he could have told you more tactfully. So move on is what I say.

Anonymous said...

Mine did it too me on Monday via text that rat bastard. What is wrong with them.

Anonymous said...

im in the exact situation its like this story matches mine down to the talking for three months!! i decided that ima let him go...i jus can't allow myself to get hurt its making me feel like im not worth it.

Anonymous said...

I'm sure he loves you unconditionaly, but he needs time to get his shit right in order to be there for you the way you deserve.

Supporting character said...

I had a similar situation. I’m in my 40s and my sister set me up with a guy she thought was my type; she had never set me up before and I was open to the idea.
He was out of town so we started with some emails, then we started talking on the phone and keeping in touch via text.
We talked on the phone for hours, then we finally got together and the connection was electric, he was such a good communicator; he drew me in with his warmth and his wit. We moved into couple mode effortlessly. He arranged surprise dinners, champagne and strawberries, he sent flowers to my office on my birthday. For 3 glorious months he kept telling me what an incredible woman I was and we grew closer. When conflicts arose we didn’t fight we worked through them calmly and with respect for each other.

He talked about issues with his family never supporting him, he talked about how his Ex was continually angry with him and how he worried about his kids. There were small flags in the lack of forgiveness for his family and an Ex he divorced 6 years before; but he communicated so well I thought he was working through it.

Then I felt him start to pull away, I started to feel cast aside, this led to a bigger conflict and he broke it off unceremoniously. I said that I thought this relationship and our connection was worth fighting for but he said he couldn’t work through this with me. Then he said that if he couldn’t make it work with me he couldn’t make it work with anyone; he would be single forever.

He felt as though his family never supported him and he had too much stress in his life that I couldn't understand. He never excised his demons and being in a close relationship made him focus on the resulting wounds. I realized that he had to excise those demons on his own, he wasn’t ready to be in a relationship and to my chagrin the break-up had very little to do with me.

I believe he came into this relationship with the best of intentions, the growing intensity of the relationship made him realize he wasn’t ready.

It’s only been 2 weeks and I miss him every hour of everyday. It’s hard when you realize you can’t fix it and that there is nothing you can do. I have a feeling he may try to draw me back in but I won’t go back unless he shows me that he is making progress with his issues; which is very unlikely at this stage. But in the end I refuse to be a supporting character in my own relationship and none of you should settle for that either.

Anonymous said...

I thought I'm in a very strange situation that rarely happens, but reading all this, I understand I'm not the only. It has been 5 months for us, 4 of it we were in touch almost every day, except this months. He wrote me first and all these 4 months been in touch every day from morning till evening. Showing care, being around when I needed, sharing with his deep feelings, same from my side. It became a very good relationship, but in the same time I saw a difference in the way he treated his friends and me. He certainly liked me, but never said that, was very cautions. We would talk a lot about relationship and marriage and what each of us would expect from relationship and marriage, discussed almost everything mot mentioning us. Indirectly. But from the very beginning, when we met, what he said that he doesn't want any relationship now, he seeing different girls for booty call, but doesn't have a gf. Well, that was a response to my question actually. Nearly a month ago, I became really close, spending almost every eve together and I felt like it scared him and he started to pull back. I decided to talk about "who we are & where it goes" (which I regret a lot now), he seemed very embarrassed. His response was very careful, seemed like he was watching every word going out from his mouth not to hurt me. He said I'm very close to him as a person & yes, he likes me as a girl, but he doesn't want a relationship. Its not about me, he doesn't want it with any pother girl. That we had such a great friendly relationship & really doesn't want to lose me and what we have now. It hurt me as I felt refused, I said we should stop being in touch. He looked very lost and asked me several times if we can keep the same relationship. I felt like crying, left him, then he hugged me, we kissed & that's how we spend 3-4 days. But he looked very depressed those days, once I started the conversation, he just blurt that he didn't want it to become a relationship, he feels to be involved into relationship and not happy. So, literally, after that (several not nice & then calmer conversations) we almost stopped communication. Now he sayd he feels sorry for what happened, he never meant to hurt me, but just one thing let to another, he just didnt want to lose me, he tried, but realized that it burdens him. I was and Im still absolutely crashed. Seems like we talked and somehow accepted to be still in friendly touch, but it doesn't work. He knows i'm hurt, and even though he time to time writes me, I feel like its coz he wants to make sure i'm fine. But I don't feel same care, attention, same closeness between us. Magic is lost :( and very unhappy, coz i came to understand that I liked him even more that I thought. I don't really ask if its gonna work, I know its like beating a dead horse, but its really hurt to turn this page and move on :(

Anonymous said...

Wow! I really felt as if I was the only one dealing with this because as you're recovering from a broken heart, you often feel alone. I understand what everyone is feeling and all I can say is that it gets better with time. 5 months after having my heart ripped out of my chest by my once best friend, I finally feel as if I'm living again. I wish I knew the remedy or formula to move on quickly. All i know is you come to a point of realization that you deserve so much more. You just have to keep moving forward.....My former best friend and I began spending a lot more time together after revealing our feelings to one another. I was introduced to his family and he was the first guy I brought around my family at the age of 26. Texting and calling all day everyday; frequent "I miss yous" and "I can't imagine life without yous"; kissing; bearing our souls to one another because of the ease and security that came along with it. I just KNEW he was the one. Nearly 9 months later, he tells me he's not ready to be in a relationship because he is afraid of hurting me. However, he is in a relationship now which began not long after his report that he wasn't ready to be with me. I grieved and pined and what hurts more is that I haven't heard from him in the past five months. I tried to reach out so that I could have closure but he didn't respond. I don't know if he's being a coward or finds that talking to the woman he once professed to caring for so deeply is irrelevant. Whatever the case may be, I can't waste time waiting for closure. Sometimes you have to close the chapter on your own and began writing new chapters. It can be done and you will heal. Life goes on with or without us. I love life too much to not enjoy her.

Anonymous said...

I actually just ended things with a guy I had been seeing off and on for 3 months. He came on really strong at the beginning after I had broken up with my boyfriend and really seemed interested. Then about a month in he say's he's not ready for a relationship and that he needs time to fix himself.

So I stopped communication. Only for him to come back and want to spend time with me. But then again, he wasnt ready for a relationship.

I found myself getting mad at him for not spending his free time with me, and constantly having conflict b/c I wanted more than he could give me.

Today I told him I couldnt be casual anymore. And he understood. Said he cared about me and still wanted to be friends.

It hurts soooo bad. I really thought we could've had something great. How do I get over him?!

Anonymous said...

I met marc after breaking up with my ex. Marc is such a gentleman that he has everything i need in a man. I slowly fell head over heels in love with him, we did everything together and spent almost everyday together for the first six months of meeting him. Everything was perfect until i brought up the conversation of where the relationship was going, he told me he wanted things to remain the way they were bse he wanted us to take everything slow. I was confused because i thought we had taken things slow in the first six months bse i am not the clingy type of girl and i know how important space is to guys. so it seemed after mentioning the word relationship, he started pulling away and we stopped spending time with each other. We had a huge argument because i was frustrated with the situation so we decided to take a break. We didnt talk or see each other for about 10months. I missed him terribly, i tried dating other guys but my heart always came back to marc, i started praying that God would give me another chance to see this guy again. one day out of nowhere, we bumped into each other at a grocery store, my heart started racing and i thought of ignoring him but i decided to say hi casually, i avoided to bring up anything from our past. After that day, he started contacting me again and we hung out on new years. In our conversations he said i shd give him some sort of promise that no matter what we went through, i shdnt drop everything just bse i am mad. But when i asked him if we are now exclusively in a relationship, he said that currently he is not able to work out a relationship. Now i am more confused than ever, i feel like i am ready to move on because i feel like it has become a cycle but i am not sure if this is the right thing to do. I love him so much and he is worth the wait but how much longer can i wait for that commitment. please help

Stacey Bullimore said...

I just wanted to post a comment as I feel like I've come out of the end of a 6 month bubble.

I split with my ex of 10.5 years in July. In September, I started jokily going on some dating apps off my mobile - chatting to men just to boost confidence again so I'd be ready to date in future.

A guy messages me - not my type usually - turns out I look like a girl he works with. We start chatting and find me have loads of similar interests to the point of us practically being the same person.

We swap number and text almost constantly for 2 weeks. I'm just after a friend at this point and someone on the same wave length after what I went through with my break up. He asks to take me out for lunch 2 weeks later.

We meet and it's great - 4 times we go out and each time I think there's such a chemistry like I've not felt but NOTHING happens. Just a big hug a few times on the day.

After 4th date he texts and says he's been holding back when it comes to me, he really likes me and would like to be more affectionate with me etc. but his life is v complicated right now and he doesn't want to hurt me/lead me on. Then the line "if I ever sort my crap out, you'll know...trust me."

So I did what any sane and rational woman would do...*ahem*...I believed him. We went out twice more on our mate dates and it was fine.

This all happened over 2 months, constant texting, pre-bed etc. After the last time we met it started to drop off. I was a bit alarmed but let it go. A few weeks later I had a text apologising for his distance as a lot of bad stuff had happened.

And what did I do? I believed him as of course he had complicated issues in his life and was in the process of sorting himself out. Of course. I would be patient as I wans't in a rush. He'd kinds knocked me off my feet but it'd be worth it in the end right?

For 4 months the contact grew less and less - about a text a week if I was lucky. As we had been so close and it had been him doing all the running I started to worry, but put it down to bad things in his life.

I then find out he's had his birthday and not told me. Then my texts go 3 weeks without response. I'm not texting him constantly - only once a week.

I decide I'm not waiting for him - I'll go on a dating site. Who do I find on there "looking for a relationship"? My friend with a complicated life.

I message him on there jokily saying fancy seeing you on here and hope you find someone. No response. A text a few days later. No response.

I've had enough I decide - I text and apologise for weirding him out on the dating site and that I hope he's ok.

No response. Leads me to confront him via text about his ignoring me, thought we were friends etc. etc. Half hour later I get the text. "I don't mean to ignore you...you sound down...I've met someone and it's become serious."

Pffffttt....this is the moment I realise that I should never have been so trusting and believed whatever came out of his mouth. All the "you can trust me, I'm not like other guys."

Stupidly, I'd have been happy if there was no attraction and we could just be mates. I think I was a challenge and after the stress, I feel much better knowing my inner alarm bells were going off for a reason.

People - keep your guards up. It's horrible to say but there are so many liars in this world or people that just want an ego boost.

I've been left questioning if any of it was real, if he ever felt anything, if there was ever any truth. I'll never know but I wasted 6 months on something that should never have been so hard.

I just worry about trusting people in the future, but I suppose I should have noticed the bS but I was too vulnerable at the time.

Good luck!

Anonymous said...

WOW. This is crazy.

I met this guy at work in October of 2011. I thought he was cool, and not many younger people work in my huge office, so it was nice to meet someone I could talk to. We would see each other down at the gym, and go out to lunch occasionally, but I didn't puruse him or flirt with him. He was funny and kind, but I didn't expect anything out of it.

Then, one day in December, he asks me out on a date. Woah- didn't expect that at all! We have our first date Dec 23, 2011, and it was great. We talk about our lives and I find out he broke up with his girlfriend of 6 years right around the time we met in October.

So, a few awkward things already: recent breakup (out of a very long relationship. They even lived together, however, I guess things started to go sour a long time before they broke up), and we work together. I'm aware that things can get strange.

Well, there is no doubt that we just clicked. We're very compatible, and I agreed to give him time to get over the new changes in his life. I want to be there as a friend, because I've really grown to care about him. But I've also fallen for him. We spend nearly every weekend together, and sometimes hang out during the week after work. He's great to me. There's no doubt in my mind that he has genuine feelings for me, even though most people from the outside would say I'm only a rebound.

Trust me, I've been a rebound, and I feel like if I truly was a rebound, he wouldn't have treated me as well as he did for the past 3 months.

We had a coversation last night, and he was honest with me from the beginning that he's not ready for a relationship. He reiterated that fact again last night. It's a bit upsetting, and I'm not sure what to do. He says he cares about me and truly does want something eventually, but not right now.

Should I be patient and stick it out? I'm glad he was honest with me from the beginning, but I feel like we're already THERE. We are in the non-relationship relationship. He knows my feelings, and he shares his too. He REALLY likes me.

I respect he needs time. I have a tendency to jump into relationships too quickly, which have always ended horribly. So maybe this is a good thing for me, too. But the question is, how long can I wait around for him? I'm willing to be patient. I don't want to miss an opportunity (who knows, maybe he'll be my husband!) but I also don't want to wait around for nothing.

I guess that's a risk you take with any relationship, but I just want some certainty that things will work out somehow...

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Anonymous said...

This is such a universal situation. I've been going through this for YEARS with a man, who tells me he loves me but not ready for a relationship, and when I pull away he pulls me back to once again tell me he's not ready to take it further. Don't let them pull you back unless they are really ready. It's so painful and it hurts more and more each time. My life has been ruined because of how much this has affected my life. I lost my job, my home and to some extent my own self respect and worth. Please don't let it get that far.

Anonymous said...

Recently I have been hanging out with this guy. The first time we hung out he told me about him being a strong cristian and he was very open and honest. We have hung out ever since for the past week or 2. Today when I told him my friend asked if we were talking he said I would consider it that but I do not like labeling things. He also said he's not ready for a relationship due to recently breaking up with his ex and her still having his belongings and owing him money. Is it worth it to hang around for a bit to let him get to know me or should I move on before it gets more complicated?..

Anonymous said...

Christian*

confused said...

Sigh...

This guy works with me and I have had this huge crush for the past year. Anyhow, 12 months went past and I decided to talk to him more and more. Then he found out that I liked him because I sent him a Valentine's day card. He basically said to me that he isn't ready for a relationship blah blah blah. I have fallen for him deeply. He flirts with me etc.. and sometimes he comes over to my place to hang out. He said to me that I'm a really nice girl but he isn't ready for anything like that.I don't know what to do. It hurts so much but he is a real sweet guy. I know he likes me because he said so. The only thing is that he isn't ready for anything and doesn't want to get involved with someone at work. I said to him whether he wants me to hate him and he said no. I have fallen deeply.
HELP

Anonymous said...

Hi ,wow we are all in similar situations except my guy I have been talking to alot and dating for a month.He said at first he's not ready to get into a relationship just yet as he is in his final stages of his divorce and I just became sperated as well.We talk everyday.We know everything about each other.There no secrets etc.He tells me how beautiful I am all the time, that he's always here for me and that he's in it for the long haul.Well,last night he told me via txt that he loves me.Should I believe him?what dies this mean exactly?I didn't say it back because I don't want to bet hurt and truth is I'm not sure just yet.I do know he's the sweetest guy I have ever met and I care for him alot.What should I do?

Anonymous said...

What should i do???? Me and this guy were friends we went on lunch dates and text all the time..after a few months my feelings grew and i told him. He said that he wasnt totally honest with me and said he just got out of a hurtful relationship. He said i thought we could just be friends but its hard, but "at the moment" i can only offer you friendship. We kept up going to lunch and texting "as friends". Then a few weeks later we "cooled down". Hes friend was ill and had cancer and died a few weeks after we had stop texting as much. I thought he was depressed. I would send texts like if you need to talk let me know, ask hows he doing etc. he would say hes hanging in there or hes so so. So a month or so i ask again whats up with us, he said the same things, at the moment i can only be your friend, your a great person and thats why im keeping my distance cause i dont want to hurt you....so 2 questions, how long is a "moment" and is he not interested in me and wont say? Also, this has been going on for about 6 months.

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Anonymous said...

I never believed in magic spells or anything like that, but I was told by a reliable source that Dr Ijebu is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person, and after much” she got me to visit ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com. It was one of the best things I have ever done. My lovelife was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn’t face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. So, with nothing but my pride to lose, I checked it out. I was flabbergasted. This man is for REAL. He did whatever magic he does,and behold – no more than THREE DAYS LATER, I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counseling, and we’re doing very, very well, on the road to recovery! Love and Many Blessings Back to You!

Anonymous said...



i am giving this testimony cos l am happy

My name is mrs. Deborah Collins from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in December this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. Atakpo.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address atakpospelltemple@yahoo.com

Great Atakpo i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you.

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Anonymous said...

This literally just happened to me...I feel numb, Icant stop crying...iknow that I may be young but iknow that this could have been the perfect relationship...I am heartbroken...why me? Why??? Everything was so perfect...then it was like the world stopped..."im not ready to be in a relationship" what do you mean you're "not ready to be in a relationship"??? >_< were only 16 but it feels like we have so much more.....why? Why me??? Why???? Iswear I just died on the inside, I will never be the same....I cant even be friends anymore...he hurt me and it cant be fixed. Things will NEVER be the same...iguess ill just cry myself to sleep now...goodnight!, :'( </3

Anonymous said...

This literally just happened to me...I feel numb, Icant stop crying...iknow that I may be young but iknow that this could have been the perfect relationship...I am heartbroken...why me? Why??? Everything was so perfect...then it was like the world stopped..."im not ready to be in a relationship" what do you mean you're "not ready to be in a relationship"??? >_< were only 16 but it feels like we have so much more.....why? Why me??? Why???? Iswear I just died on the inside, I will never be the same....I cant even be friends anymore...he hurt me and it cant be fixed. Things will NEVER be the same...iguess ill just cry myself to sleep now...goodnight!, :'( </3

Anonymous said...

Kinda my story too.. Dragged me along for 2 years on and off, then told me he's not ready for a relationship!!! I called him the next morning and told him is better we stop any flirting, sex, and too nice behaviors..because he treats me like his gf, our friends think we are dating, he makes plans abt the future, and what else?? I thought he needed time, but im getting really hurt, and he's still not ready!!! So I told him I relieved him of all emotions and feeling that makes him treat me the way he does, and let us be the simplest friends that we can be, because I dont want him to end up in a relationship before being ready, or me getting more hurt if nothing happens.. He doesn't want to, begged me to give him time.. I told him that's the time im giving him, I just can't guarantee I'll be waiting till that time.. Im moving on.. I cried a lot after the conversation but I felt like I had to, and I'll just to try to get with one of the guys that are desperately after me.. At least I know they wanna be with me :)

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I and my boy friend have been separated for a long period, I came across different spell caster and they were all unable to bring my lover back. I was so sad and almost gave up on him when i met a spell man Dr Black that helped me get my lover back. Ever since then i have been so happy and couldn't believe it would happen. He also helped me with success spell, I have been living happily with my lover now and will be getting married soon. Here is his contact if you need his help blackspiritualtemple@gmail.com

GET YOU EX LOVER BACK TODAY!! said...


Life can be very displeasing especially when we loose the ones we love and cherish so
much.My husband abandoned me and my 2 kids and said he wanted new adventures.I asked what i had done wrong but he said nothng.He continued paying our bills but moved in with another woman i was so frastrated and atimes i will cry all night because i needed my husband by my side. all thanks to Dr Osaze, i was nearly loosing hope until i saw an article on how Dr Osaze cast a love spell to make lovers come back. There is no harm in trying, i said to my self. i contacted him via email and after 24 hrs my story changed. words will not be enough to appreciate what he has done for me. i have promised to share the testimony as long as i live because he brought back happiness and joy into my life.If you having any kind of problem in your relationship and you need your man back i RECOMMEND Dr Osaze.pls do contact hm directly on spirituallove@hotmail.com

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jave said...



What a wonderful Miracle from Therapist Oniha Of the winexbackspell@gmail.com I went over seas after being in a relationship with my partner for a year and half and stayed in contact frequently with him while I was gone. When I returned home he told me that he didn't think it was going to work between us, I think there maybe another women but I know there is still love there until i meet Therapist Oniha Of the winexbackspell@gmail.com who rescue me from Nightmare and help me to get my Love back between 96hrs ,i was so happy because i dont believe my partner would come back to me again but my thanks to Therapist Oniha for the wonderful Miracle work he did to save my Love Life .

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...



miss temerra
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Anonymous said...


Greetings to every body that is reading this testimony.

Me and my boyfriend were seriousely in love for six years and we were planning to get married but one day he came to my house and told me he was no longer interested in our relationship simply because he was dating another rich lady who promise to buy him a car and to sponsor their wedding. And i suffer heartbreak for seven months and i was not tired of loving him.so i take a bold step by contacting a spell caster who help me bring my ex boyfriend back. he is powerful and great his contact is churchofproblemsolvedchurch@yahoo.com you can also contact him for help

Anonymous said...


my name is rose
My ex-boyfriend dumped me one weeks ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help people to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 48hours that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you dr.kokotemple. You are truly talented and gifted. Email: dr.kokotemple@gmail.com is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man

Anonymous said...




This is my testimony, I was living in the darkness and I couldn’t move forward or gain anything in life such as friends, money, promotion, & especially love.now i have evertin buy my said wow thank
to this man how did it for me dr,suzu his email is homeofhelpingsolution@yahoo.com
once again thanks
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Anonymous said...





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julie said...

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julie said...

Thanks to this great man of spirit called Dr Samura which I don't know how to thank him for the good work he has Don for me and family which I want to share my testimony with to you all so I was married to Hassan Moel and my name is Julie deshields for six years now he left me with two kids with know reason which I don't know what to do.so one day i was in my friends place when I exposed my pain to her about my depression which I have be looking for who to help me out of it then my friend called me closer to her self telling me on how she got this great man of spirit who helped her found her way to get her husband back then I ask of his contact she quickly go and get her computer and gave me his Email ID and his number so,that is how I contacted him for a help. And now am so happy with my family and with a happy home if you are in such pain kindly Via Email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@YAHOO.COM or call +2347030410643 have faith in him and he will help you
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Anonymous said...

I want to say that my lover left me in April. During one long month I have contacted many casters and bought almost ten spells without results. My ex wouldn't contact me, wouldn't answer my calls and emails. But I never lost hope because I knew we were soul mates. Dr. Abu cast the most wonderful spell for me 2 weeks ago and everything has changed since then. We are close to each other again and he is calling me many times everyday. Thank you Dr. Abu of Ominighospelltemple@gmail.com, your help is very appreciated! I will keep in touch.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Santana Valdez says

i am giving this testimony cos l am happy

My name is mrs. Santana Valdez from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in June 28th 2013 this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. Atakpo.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address atakpotemble@yahoo.com

Great Atakpo i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you. Email Him Through his email address... atakpotemble@yahoo.com

please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay..

What a powerful man such as Dr Atakpo.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. atakpotemble@yahoo.com





Anonymous said...

Ok so there's this guy that i really like and he told his friends that he liked me to (and they told me) and the way things were i thought were goin to go out he said goodnight to me every night and we would hang out...but everyone kinda pressured him into asking me out....and then one day me and him were hanging out and he said that he would date me but he wasn't ready for a relationship.....should i wait till he is ready or just move on?

Anonymous said...

“When my boyfriend and I broke up I was completely lost. A good friend of mine recommended that I have a love spell cast to bring him back by Ancient Fathers and Mothers Spell Temple. I thought that idea of a love spell was strange, but was willing to give it a shot. When I contacted Dr. Lee for the first time I was scared because I was not sure if what they did went against my religion. he assured me that they only use traditional voodoo which is safe and has no side effects. I felt a little better and decided to do the return lover spell. I did not think that it would work considering my ex and his whole family hated me and told me never to contact them again. Within 3days he showed up at my job and brought flowers to me. He said that he missed me more than he could describe and decided that the good out weighed the bad. We got back together and our relationship has been better the second time around. I have to give Ancient Fathers and Mothers Spell Temple all of the credit in the world for helping us get back to a better place than where we began. The new found love that he has for me is incredible and I can’t wait to see what the future holds!” he can also help you his email is Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

juan Hillary said...

Hi My name is JUAN just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 8 years with 3 kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had a fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce… I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out… he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster greatkekespelltemple@yahoo.com who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and cast a love spell on him. Within 2 days of casting the spell, he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continued to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our fourth child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just want to share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there needs it… You can email him
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juan Hillary said...

Hi My name is JUAN just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 8 years with 3 kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had a fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce… I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose him but everything just didn't work out… he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster greatkekespelltemple@yahoo.com who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and cast a love spell on him. Within 2 days of casting the spell, he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continued to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our fourth child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just want to share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there needs it… You can email him
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lydia said...

My name is Lydia I have been rejected by my husband after 6 years of marriage just because of another woman. And he left me and the kid to suffer. One day when i was reading through the internet, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address agbalaxxy@gmail.com have help a girl to get back her Boyfriend and i email the address and he told me that he will help me and after 4 days that i will have my husband back. I believed him because of his polite approach and sincerity and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster has the power to bring lovers back because i am now happy with my husband.

g said...

My name is Jennifer martins, from USA I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in February this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR.hercules he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 6years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to usa, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well weM are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is GREATHERCULESSPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.CO

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

First off, I would like to say that I think you are a wonderful man. You are a truly an inspiration by the way you help people. The spell you cast to make Julius realize his feelings for me worked faster than I could have hoped for. He came to me 2days after you have casted the spell and told me everything I had been hoping to hear. I can not thank you more.... Now I can finally stop crying tears of pain and cry tears of joy! He is wonderful to me. Thanks Dr. Lametu of Ancientspiritualtemple@gmail.com

garj said...


Woaaahhhh everybody listen the spell casting worked for me,It worked!!! You are the best on earth! she called me few days ago, apologized, begged for pardon and she asked me if she could move again with me!!! Now she is sleeping again by my side, we made love again (and it was really great!), she is loving, caring and everything! Woaaahhhh I'm so happy thank you thank you thank you!!! I was so happy that I forgot to write you immediately (sorry about that but I think you will understand!). For sure I will come back to you for other things. If you need help in any area of your life contact Therapist Oniha and he will help you out via winexbackspell@gmail.com

Miss Carol said...

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Anonymous said...

Wow. I'm floored that other people know how this feels/ are going trough it. I'm young only 21 and I care for him so much. He pretty much broke things off between us because he said he wasn't in the position in his life to be in a relationship and give mw what I deserve, where he thinks he can in the future. I pulled back so much that he is the one calling me for a change. Its amazing, but also sad because we talk on the phone and flirt. Like he flirts with me?? Why? If you don't want to be with me. Guys are crazy. He tells me "You're so perfect you don't even realize it." and "I wish other people had attributes from you." If I'm so damn perfect then why aren't you with me. He doesn't know what he wants. To be honest I think he misses me and I used to call all the time. But he still isn't ready to commit. I am moving on and becoming the best me I can have. He already ruined my summer and I won't let him ruin my life. I want someone who wants me 100% not just 70. I'm so glad I found this knowing that people understand me. Other people in my life don't get it and often judge my depressed state about the whole situation. People say "Oh just move on." Or "Oh well now he's out of your life find someone else." Its not easy.

Shania said...


I want to thank the great Dr.Zack Balo for what he did for me he brought happiness back into my life. My husband left me and told me is over I was devastated as I loved him so much I decided to contact a spell caster and I met a friend who told me of a great doctor and I decided to contact him and he told me in 3days my husband will call me and beg me to accept him I thought he was joking in 3days everything happened as he said I am so happy now. You can also contact him at wiseindividualspell@gmail.com for all your problems or call his mobile number +2348078927387.

Whitney Moore said...

I was married for five years with out any child, because of this my husband start acting very strange at home, coming home late and not spending time with me any more. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family. my sister in law told me about DR. zogo from the Internet, how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him. he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband came back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to Dr zogo for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is: zogospellcasters@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Maybe you're just not the one. When I started dating my ex boyfriend, he knew within about a week that he wanted to be exclusive with me. The person he was talking to before me, couldn't understand that because he was telling her that he wasn't ready for a relationship. It's not that he was ready, he just didn't want one with her. My relationship with him
lasted for 6 long years. I'm now single again. I've been talking to someone for 2 1/2 weeks. He says ultimately he is looking for marriage and at this point he is not sure if he wants me to be his girlfriend. I think men know who they want very early one. I will give this guy another 2 wks and if he still doesn't want to be exclusive I'll have no choice but to cut him off. I don't do casual relationships.

maria hasbarger said...

I want to say thanks once again to this great man called Dr Samura and his spiritual way of helping people am Sarah Jude from Japan i lives in USA with my husband we love each other and also he care about me always look forward to make things easy for both of us 9 years after our wedding, we both work harder to make a family greatest surprise, we have a kid after some times again, we have another one so with this, we live in peace and he was so honest to me shortly, he started misbehaving that i don't know what is going on then i asked him. Darling what is going on? you are so strange to me this few days hope i have not offended you? he said no. Not knowing he have and affair with one lady out side who promised him a car an apartment in one estate were i cannot see him also when he cannot see me i manage to stay with him pleading him he should forgive me if have wrong to him he started complaining he has no money that he has lost all his money in his business that he needs some money then i asked him how much is this money you are looking for? he did not know i can afford it. Then, he said $14,000USD i promised him i we give it to him just for him to care about his family. My greatest surprise, the next day, i went to work and our two kids were in school not knowing his going to leave the house before i come's back i met some of his things outside i was waiting for him to come back he never come back i cried i miss him so much and he have taking all my money away i was only left with $800USD. One day, as i was ready a blog i saw a testifier made by someone in Australia called Julie telling people about how this man call Dr Samura helped her and the man's contact email was there and his mobile number then i contacted him for a help and really, he brought back my husband now am so happy my brothers and sister if you are in such relationship problem kindly via Email samuratellerspell100@yahoo.com or call +2347030410643 he we help you solve all your problems Sarah

Anonymous said...


My husband abandoned me and the kids for 8 months, and refused to come back because he got hold up by a woman whom he just met, myself and the kids has been suffering and it has been heel of a struggle, but I decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as one again. I went online there I saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email is abuyespelltemple@gmail.com so I had to contact him and explain my problem to him and in just 2 days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behavior was back to the man i got married to. I cant thank the spell caster enough for what he did for me, i am so grateful and i will never stop to publish his name on the internet for the good work he has done for me. Dr Oye you are the best of all.

Anonymous said...

THANK to thge author of this site and Dr great oshogum for all he have done in my life, I NORYAN WARLALD I lost my relationship during august. i suspected my ex was into another relationship i could not talk to him about it or even contact a spell caster to help me because of how much i love him. i was scared of losing him after some time My ex left me with so many pains and pregnancy. to another woman since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 5 spell casters and 4 of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a man to great Dr oshogum because Dr oshogum him help him to get his wife back some times past. so when i contacted Dr oshogum on this site, At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items after he consulted his great and powerful god, it took me three weeks be convince by MR LONGER DUKE and something occur to my mind and i said let me give him a trial.
I was very shocked when Ruben called four days after i sent Dr oshogum the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i should allow him back to my heart. sincerely i am very happy that we are together today because he proposed to me last night. sir the great Dr i am very grateful and happy for what you have done for me. I will advise you my friends out there who have emotional problems or health to contact him now via email oshogumspelltemple@ive.com because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem.
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Anonymous said...

Hello everyone.
My name is Alice, my boyfriend and I were separated for a long period due to some misunderstanding, I came across different spell casters and they were all unable to bring my lover back. I was so sad and almost gave up on him when i met a spell caster called Dr. Desmond, who helped me get my lover back. Ever since then i have been so happy and couldn't believe it would happen. He also helped me with success spell, I have been living happily with my lover now and will be getting married soon. Here is his contact drdesmondspelltemple1@gmail.com if you need his help on getting your ex back, stop your marriage from crumbling, or you need success in every aspect of your life. He is really a good spell caster.

angela fedric said...


Hello, my name is Angela, I'm from USA. I
want to inform you all that there is a spell caster
that is genuine and real.Dr Aduke I never really believed in
any of these things but when I was losing kelvin, I
needed help, and somewhere to turn badly. I found
consultant. Dr Aduke at:okpebhohappyhome@live.com and i ordered a LOVE SPELL.
Seven days later, my phone rang. kelvin was his old
self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only
come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much
I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn't
brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we
have to share together. I recommend anyone who is in
my old situation to try it. It will bring you a
wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you.
The way things were meant to be." you can contact the
spell caster at okpebhohappyhome@live.com he's
very nice and great.

angela fedric said...


Hello ready my name is Mrs Margret, i live in canada. I never believed in love spells or magic until I meet this spell caster once when i went to see my friend in Indian this year on a business summit. I meant a man who's name is DR NOSHAKING he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one's girl friend or boy friend,and even help you cure your sickness either HIV OR AIDS. misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I'm now happy & a living testimony cause the man i want to marry left me 5 weeks before our wedding and my life was capsided down cause our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i so much doubt his work, skepticaly, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mum and with his family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn't believe it cause the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better and sweeter. If you found your self in such situation you can emial him at: drnoshaking@gmail.com
thank you so much dr noshaking cause you have don a thing of joy in my life that i can never forgeth in my life. The world need good spell caster like you to help them in their distress i so much apreciate your wonderfull work. Contact this spell caster at:drnoshaking@gmail.com

angela fedric said...



My Name is Mrs licon jose and i am from USA, I wish to share the testimony of life experience with the general public about what this priest has just done for me, this dr aduke has just brought back my Lost hope to me with his great powers, I was infected with HIV/AIDS during my youth camp in Tobago. i never notice it until I meet this man David Morgan . We both love each other and we plane to get married. I Was surprise when we go for HIV/AIDS test, and i was tested positive. The man was so disappointed in me and was very confused because of what happened, I wanted to kill myself, but a friend of mine told me not to worry that I still have life to live. She ask me one day to followed her to the cyber cafe, when we get there, I decided search for the best way to live with HIV/AIDS, that was when i saw a testimonies from marain adasine on how a great priest heal her of HIV/AIDS. i decided to email contact the man, then you won’t believe this when i Contacted this Dr on my problems, he told me what I needed to do and how to do it, he gave me 4days to go back for the test again, I go back to the same hospital and have the same test, but the HIV/AIDS positive change to negative. I didn’t believed the doctor’s report, I went to another hospital, the same result, the greatest surprise is that, the man who left me for 2months came looking for me and said he could find it easy doing anything without me. I promise to testify and share the testimony on the internet and everywhere I go.cause the miracle that Dr Aduke did for me was wonderful it even berfunes my expectations,to me I will keep on shearing this testimony until my oldest age. Inside and outside me is full of great joy. I am ready to tell the whole world about this great Dr, because he did it for me and i believe he will do it for others who need his help. you can as well email him at: okpebhohappyhome@live.com I BELIEVE HE CAN ALSO HELP YOU SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM TOO. YOU CAN ALSO CONTACT HIM IN RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM OR MARRIAGE,HAS IT BEEN DIFFICULT FORE YOU TO GET YOUR EX BACK ALSO EMAIL HIM FOR THAT CAUSE I HAVE SEEN TESTIMONIES ABOUT HOW HE HELP PEOPLE TO GET THEIR EX BACK.HERE IS HIS VIA EMAIL.OKPEBHOHAPPYHOME@LIVE.COM

angela fedric said...



My Name is Mrs licon jose and i am from USA, I wish to share the testimony of life experience with the general public about what this priest has just done for me, this dr aduke has just brought back my Lost hope to me with his great powers, I was infected with HIV/AIDS during my youth camp in Tobago. i never notice it until I meet this man David Morgan . We both love each other and we plane to get married. I Was surprise when we go for HIV/AIDS test, and i was tested positive. The man was so disappointed in me and was very confused because of what happened, I wanted to kill myself, but a friend of mine told me not to worry that I still have life to live. She ask me one day to followed her to the cyber cafe, when we get there, I decided search for the best way to live with HIV/AIDS, that was when i saw a testimonies from marain adasine on how a great priest heal her of HIV/AIDS. i decided to email contact the man, then you won’t believe this when i Contacted this Dr on my problems, he told me what I needed to do and how to do it, he gave me 4days to go back for the test again, I go back to the same hospital and have the same test, but the HIV/AIDS positive change to negative. I didn’t believed the doctor’s report, I went to another hospital, the same result, the greatest surprise is that, the man who left me for 2months came looking for me and said he could find it easy doing anything without me. I promise to testify and share the testimony on the internet and everywhere I go.cause the miracle that Dr Aduke did for me was wonderful it even berfunes my expectations,to me I will keep on shearing this testimony until my oldest age. Inside and outside me is full of great joy. I am ready to tell the whole world about this great Dr, because he did it for me and i believe he will do it for others who need his help. you can as well email him at: okpebhohappyhome@live.com I BELIEVE HE CAN ALSO HELP YOU SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM TOO. YOU CAN ALSO CONTACT HIM IN RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM OR MARRIAGE,HAS IT BEEN DIFFICULT FORE YOU TO GET YOUR EX BACK ALSO EMAIL HIM FOR THAT CAUSE I HAVE SEEN TESTIMONIES ABOUT HOW HE HELP PEOPLE TO GET THEIR EX BACK.HERE IS HIS VIA EMAIL.OKPEBHOHAPPYHOME@LIVE.COM

Anonymous said...

I WANT TO THANK GREAT DR IGBERASE 2ND FOR HELPING ME WITH MY LOST HUSBAND DEVIS HOLLYWOOD...
Dr Igberase is like a father to the fatherless.. i never believed these will really make a change in my marriage, and i never have it in my thought that i could ever been with my husband Mr Devis after divorcing and ending our 33years marriage.... My life was upset i never knew where to start from when my husband broke up with me.....My name is Tanisha Devis from Poland but got married and live in Chicago USA, igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com is the right email address to contact for an urgent help in getting your lover back.... My husband and I have been together for 33years before he divorced me and i was so upset because i thought i have lost my marriage forever... i did all i could to please for my husband to bring me back home but all to be in vain.. i had to travelled away from my state because i was not having anywhere to stay because my home was not conducive for me to stay because my husband want me out of th house, i travel to a friend of mine in California, one night, when i was searching on a good spell caster results that help in bringing back lost lover's and husband's, i found an interesting story that was shared by Santana Valdez From Texas Huston, about a good spell caster called Dr Igberase,and how he helped her in getting her husban back home, and i decided to put a try in contacting him... he replied me back.. i thought at first these was just normal and he told me that i was going to get back my husband after a period of 28hours i still doubted him.... But today as i am sharing these good news is for me to express my experience to all the whole universe that these is a good spell caster that helps in bringing back lost lovers and he is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) I am happily with my husband and my 3 kids, TARRY, WENDY, JEFF... great Atakpo i thank you for helping me to get my family back.... his email address is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) Thanks, From Tanisha Devi Igberase is my Granfather because he was always there for me when i needed him mostly and he is the reason why i am happy today.




perry Elizabeth said...

My Name is Mrs. Perry Elizabeth, I was married to my husband for 10 years and we were both bless with three children, living together as one love, until 2012 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he stated sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave he the job. since that day, when i called him, he don’t longer pick up my calls and he nothing since to come out good. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to a very good love spell caster. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has nothing to do with pay first. but the only thing he was ask to do was just to go and buy the items to cast the spell, and that was what she did. And she gave me the spell caster e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, i was so surprise when he said that if i have the faith that i will get my husband back in the nest three [3] day, and off which it was really so. but i was so shock that i did not pay any thing to Prophet Otu Oballa but my husband was on his knells begging me and the children for forgiveness. This testimony is just the price i have to pay. This man Prophet Otu Oballa is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail address: otuoballaspelltemple@live.com

Anonymous said...

I heard so many things about DR OKAKAGBE from ACOGBESPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM and every story has been so great. so here is my story me and the father of my son has been off and on for 3 years its been a very stressful relationship. he cheated on me and I was very hurt, it was miserable for me so in returned I cheated because I wanted him to feel the pain but he never cares so we went apart, so he went back to his ex.i wanted him to leave her and let us come back together, I love him so much and I just want him to feel the same way feel for him, luckly for me DR OKAKAGBE was the one who brought my lover back to me, he is a good spell caster. his contact address is ACOGBESPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM.you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband

Chandra said...

i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at any cost…then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and i didn’t know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned me and the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so i decided to try it..although i didn’t believe in all those things… then when he did the consultations and spell, after 2days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn’t believe it..anyways we are back together now and we are happy..in case anyone needs this man, his email address abuyespelltemple@gmail.com his spells is for better life. again his email is abuyespelltemple@gmail.com

Clem said...

My name is Clem. Me and my ex separated 4 months ago and he told me that he don't love me any more and went to be with another Girl but i am still in love with him and need him back I try to get him back but all my effort was in vain until I reach out to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of a spell caster, I decided to give it a try, I contacted him and tell him my problem. He cast a love spell for me and guarantee me of three days that my ex will come back to me and to my greatest surprise my ex came back to me and beg for forgiveness promise never to live me again. I am so happy my ex is back to me again, thank you Dr Oye for reuniting me and my ex back together again. If you need him to help you Email him on abuyespelltemple@gmail.com

chloe said...

I was in a relationship for 2 years, It seemed a happy relationship at first but became stormy characterized as my boyfriend was not ready to take the relationship to the next level, i could not leave him because i loved him and wanted to be with him and he feels the same way about me too, but it just did not seem like it. My boyfriend was stuck to another woman. After many struggles i contacted a spell caster for help and indeed his spell worked well as my boyfriend broke ties with the other woman and came back to me with much love than i expected and purpose marriage to me, we are getting married this month ending. I got this help from PRIEST ANDREW and his contact is priestandrew91@yahoo.com, i would love you all to give it a try when ever having issues in your relationship.

Anonymous said...

“When my boyfriend and I broke up I was completely lost. A good friend of mine recommended that I have a love spell cast to bring him back by vadoo spell temple. I thought that idea of a love spell was strange, but was willing to give it a shot. When I contacted Dr for the first time I was scared because I was not sure if what they did went against my religion. he assured me that they only use traditional voodoo which is safe and has no side effects. I felt a little better and decided to do the return lover spell. I did not think that it would work considering my ex and his whole family hated me and told me never to contact them again. Within 3days he showed up at my job and brought flowers to me. He said that he missed me more than he could describe and decided that the good out weighed the bad. We got back together and our relationship has been better the second time around. I have to give vadoo spell temple all of the credit in the world for helping us get back to a better place than where we began. The new found love that he has for me is incredible and I can’t wait to see what the future holds!” he can also help you his email is worldwidesupremetemple@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

I never thought it would happen, but thanks to Dr. Lee and his amazing money spell, I just won the lottery! I have played every day for a year and never won more than a few dollars, but with Dr. Lee money spell, I finally won an extremely big prize! Thank you Dr for being my good luck charm! If you be happy like me I will advise you to just contact Dr. Lee via: Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com and I promise you won't regret it in any way.

crystal wilson said...

am very happy to tell every one to hear my name is Miss mary. i have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until i met a post where this man Dr. OKUKU have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. You can contact him with this mail: okukuspelltemple@gmail.com


crystal wilson said...


I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl called michelle and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy woman.For what you have done for me,i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing.I hope God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,visit him on oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com is the only answer to your problemS
EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

maria hasbarger said...






























After I and my lover spent about 4 years together, my boyfriend told me that

we can not be together. and already We were making ready ourselves to get

married this year and I was very happy and absolutely ready to marry him.

this breakup started when he went a little far from the city where I live, a

year before. He found a good job out there. And he promised me to come back

in one or two years. In the mean time, I found a job around his place (we

take it as a good opportunity for us to start living together) but the

company I worked for resist to leave me since I am a responsible person in

the company. They offered me a very nice salary increment with huge

responsibility of work. Then I told to my boyfriend I preferred to stay

where I live and work, since, he has not a plan to live there forever. He

was very upset at the moment... and ignored me totally. I tried to contact

him but I can’t. Following so much effort he sends me a message saying "our

relationship is over". I never expected such a thing to happen, so I got

sick. Even after so much begging he allow me to see him, but told me the

same thing that it is over. I asked him the real reason. He said, you never

listened to me, you never gave me credit, and you disrespected me…..and so

on. I never noticed such a thing in our relationship before, so I got

shocked and couldn’t say a word in front of him. For me our relationship was

perfect. And I really love him. I want to be with him. I send so many

letters saying I’m sorry, I tried to contact him but there is no reply. I

did everything to attract him and live with him forever but nothing was

going through. so I needed a help on how to get my lover back. I had the

feelling that he still loves me, though he did not say a word. I needed help

seriously. I thought it will never possible to get him back and be the happy

couple again? so when I read testimonies about

SAMURATELLERSPELL100@YAHOO.COM I contacted him and he told me that my case

is a simple one to solve, so after his consultation and casting of his spell

my boyfriend emailed me telling me he was sorry for all that he did to me,

that he is ready to marry me now, I was shocked, I never believed that GREAT

SAMURA could make such thing to happen with his spell, today I am getting

married to my boyfriend, and I will never forget this spell caster I will

always talk about him anywhere I go angelina hocombe. Via +2348103508204

Anonymous said...

I WANT TO THANK GREAT DR IGBERASE 2ND FOR HELPING ME WITH MY LOST HUSBAND DEVIS HOLLYWOOD...
Dr Igberase is like a father to the fatherless.. i never believed these will really make a change in my marriage, and i never have it in my thought that i could ever been with my husband Mr Devis after divorcing and ending our 33years marriage.... My life was upset i never knew where to start from when my husband broke up with me.....My name is Tanisha Davis from Poland but got married and live in Chicago USA, igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com is the right email address to contact for an urgent help in getting your lover back.... My husband and I have been together for 33years before he divorced me and i was so upset because i thought i have lost my marriage forever... i did all i could to please for my husband to bring me back home but all to be in vain.. i had to traveled away from my state because i was not having anywhere to stay because my home was not conducive for me to stay because my husband want me out of the house, i travel to a friend of mine in California, one night, when i was searching on a good spell caster results that help in bringing back lost lover's and husband's, i found an interesting story that was shared by Santana Valdez From Texas Huston, about a good spell caster called Dr Igberase,and how he helped her in getting her husband back home, and i decided to put a try in contacting him... he replied me back.. i thought at first these was just normal and he told me that i was going to get back my husband after a period of 28hours i still doubted him.... But today as i am sharing these good news is for me to express my experience to all the whole universe that these is a good spell caster that helps in bringing back lost lovers and he is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) I am happily with my husband and my 3 kids, TARRY, WENDY, JEFF... great Igberase i thank you for helping me to get my family back.... his email address is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) Thanks, From Tanisha Davis
, Igberase is my Grandfather because he was always there for me when i needed him mostly and he is the reason why i am happy today.


Jennifer Wayne said...

Its so amazing love can be and what you get when you don't expect. I cant share my story here. but i ahere to confess about how i love my man and how he loves me so much than before he walked away from me and didn't want to do anything with me.I wanted him so much and couldn't do with out him. I had to get him back to my life by all means. A friend directed me to Dr. OLA who now help me to bring him back, I really appreciate the good work he have done for me, he is a good spell caster. I am the most happiest woman on earth now.. i am so happy. If you need his help you can contact him on olalovespell@yahoo.com As I am happy I also want you out there to be happy. olalovespell@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...


i am giving this testimony because i don't no how to thank Dr. Simon making me to
be a happy woman in my matrimonial home over 6years now i married and
i have two kids my husband never hot me one day. so over 8moths now he
sturdily change he turn his back on me. he stop paying children school fees
he turn his back in all his responsibility. thing was not moving fine so i no
that something was wrong so i called a friend of mine and tell her my pains
she told me about Dr Simon, how he help someone who close to her and i told
her to send me the email of Dr Simon. she quickly send it to me i email him and told him
my problems he said that it was a woman who love my husband in were he work
cast a strong spell on him so that he we forget his family. so i pleas Dr Simon to help
me. he truly did it for me every thing real work fine. am so happy Dr,Simon did a great work in my life. if you are interested quickly email him; oksolutemple@outlook.com


ELIZABETH ROSAS said...

THE GREAT DR SAMBOLA WHO BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME IN JUST A 7 DAY.
My name is [Elizabeth R Widen] I live in California, and i got married four months ago. My husband and I have been living a very happy and lovely life. So as time went on, I began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing. He was now going out with other girls, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping in my house anymore. I became confused and didn't know what to do anymore. So i became worried and stranded, that brought so many thoughts into my mind, because I have never experienced a thing like this before in my life.
So I decided to visit a spell caster, to see if he can help me out. So immediately I went to the internet, where I saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone's ex lover back,[sambolatemple@gmail.com] " so I contacted him immediately and I explained to him all my problems and he told me that it will be very easy for him to solve, compare to the ones that he has done before. And he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me immediately he is through with the spell casting. And also he told me to put all my trust in him, and I really obeyed him.
So it was 8:00 am on the next morning, when I was about going to work, when i received my husband's call, and he told me that he was coming back home, and he apologized to me, and told me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me. And after some hours later, he really came back home, and that was how we continued our marriage with lots of love and happiness, and our love was now stronger than how it were before.
And he also told me that once my heart desire has been granted unto me that i should go and testify of his work right here on the internet. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth today as I am writing this testimony, and I want to really thank Dr sambola "via email sambolatemple@gmail.com " for bringing back my husband back, and for bringing joy and love to my family.
So my greatest advice for you out there who your husband or your wife is acting strange or behaving the same way like this, or you have any problem with your relationship or anything related to do with spell casting, is for you to go and visit this man anytime, and i assure you that he will be of help to you, and I am 100% sure that he will solve it out. contact this great man if you have problem with your lover with is via email sambolatemple@gmail.com
Thank DR SAMBOLA

Anonymous said...

I WANT TO THANK GREAT DR IGBERASE 2ND FOR HELPING ME WITH MY LOST HUSBAND DEVIS HOLLYWOOD...
Dr Igberase is like a father to the fatherless.. i never believed these will really make a change in my marriage, and i never have it in my thought that i could ever been with my husband Mr Devis after divorcing and ending our 33years marriage.... My life was upset i never knew where to start from when my husband broke up with me.....My name is Tanisha Davis from Poland but got married and live in Chicago USA, igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com is the right email address to contact for an urgent help in getting your lover back.... My husband and I have been together for 33years before he divorced me and i was so upset because i thought i have lost my marriage forever... i did all i could to please for my husband to bring me back home but all to be in vain.. i had to traveled away from my state because i was not having anywhere to stay because my home was not conducive for me to stay because my husband want me out of the house, i travel to a friend of mine in California, one night, when i was searching on a good spell caster results that help in bringing back lost lover's and husband's, i found an interesting story that was shared by Santana Valdez From Texas Huston, about a good spell caster called Dr Igberase,and how he helped her in getting her husband back home, and i decided to put a try in contacting him... he replied me back.. i thought at first these was just normal and he told me that i was going to get back my husband after a period of 28hours i still doubted him.... But today as i am sharing these good news is for me to express my experience to all the whole universe that these is a good spell caster that helps in bringing back lost lovers and he is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) I am happily with my husband and my 3 kids, TARRY, WENDY, JEFF... great Igberase i thank you for helping me to get my family back.... his email address is (igberasespelltemple@yahoo.com) Thanks, From Tanisha Davis
, Igberase is my Grandfather because he was always there for me when i needed him mostly and he is the reason why i am happy today.


Anonymous said...





i am shearing out this testimony, because am so happy about my life i don't have much to say, over a year and 2months my husband left me and my 3months old baby and he went and stay with another woman i try my possible best for him to come back, still yet he refuse, one day i was online on net i saw a testimony of a woman how Dr. Simon, help her it was just like the problems and pains i am passing true in my matrimonial home so i copy the email of Dr. Simon, and email him, and told him about the problems i am passing true in my home, so he promise to help me, i respond to his request because i cant bear the pains any more, so after that Dr. Simon call me and told me that he has true with my work that my husband will call me in the nest 48,ours.i never believe so wen i was in the bathroom, i hard my phone ringing i quickly rush and pick up the phone i saw it was a strange number i pick up the call and i held my husband voice begging me for forgiveness.i don't no how to thanks Dr, Simon because he wipe away all my tears am so happy, if you need his help you can rich him; oksolutemple@outlook.com

Anonymous said...


My life almost got destroyed, Thanks to the God sent OSHOGUM who rescued me out of my marriage problems NOW, to achieve all that you desire in life to live a happy life, contact great Dr oshogun temple for a betterment of life. i am very happy today to tell the world how great he is because how of much he help me, bring me out of shame and make me smile again just when i thought my life has be concluded in pain and miserable because my man left me when i was two week pregnant then i was advice by my doctor not to work due to my health challenge else i will lose my baby. so i use all the money i have to take care of my unborn child and my self till the seventh months of my pregnancy then i was broke and in pain. life was so difficult till i melt an old college friend who told me about her past life problem and how great Dr oshogum help her. then i ask her how to meet or contact the man and she gave me oshogumspelltemple@live.com and His +2348189075265 to contact him. though i never believe he can help me because i have meet some persons before now and they did not help me. Dr oshogun demanded for items to help me bring my man back though i was broke i have to meet my mother to help me because i really love my man and he is working and earn well. so did all that DR oshogum ask me to do, I was very shocked when Daniel called four days after i sent Dr oshogum the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i should allow him back to my heart. sincerely i am very happy that we are together and my child now know and also live with his dad. sir the Great Dr i am very grateful and happy for what you have done for me. To those that have marriage, relationship or health problem, I will advise you to contact Dr oshogum now via email oshogumspelltemple@live.com or call +2348189075265 because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem.
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Anonymous said...

I heard so many things about DR Okafor. and every story has been so great. so here is my story, me and the father of my son has been off and on for 3 years its been a very stressful relationship. he cheated on me and I was very hurt, it was miserable for me so in returned I cheated because I wanted him to feel the pain but he never cares so we went apart, so he went back to his ex.i wanted him to leave her and let us come back together, I love him so much and I just want him to feel the same way feel for him, lucky for me DR Okafor was the one who brought my lover back to me, he is a good spell caster. his contact address is okaforspiritualtemple@gmail.com
.you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband

Lucy said...



I dated a guy for about six months, I totally feel happy whenever i am with him. We got along great never fought but one night, i had much drink on me and then got a little jealous and then embarrassed him in front of his female friends, Because of that he broke up with me right there. For the first week i tried to do everything in my power to get him back but all were in veil. Till a friend introduce me to this great man called Dr.Grant of grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com. I was surprise when Dr.Grant told me that my lover will come back to me within 3 days. But the good news is that my lover is really back to me now all thanks goes to Dr.Grant. Contact Dr.Grant on grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com

Gracie said...


I and Jeff has been together for 2 years. we have been living happily without any problem. I always discuss about marriage with Jeff but he replies me with, we will soon get married. I was surprise one Friday evening when I was in my sister's house, Jeff called me on phone and told me that we can no longer carry on with the relationship because he has find himself somelse whom he want to get married to. I was shocked and hospitalize for some days. I was so tired and tried to get my life because without Jeff but it was impossible because i truly love him. One Sunday evening when i was searching online for help, I was directed to Dr.Grant whose email is grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com i contacted him and he was able to bring back Jeff back to me within 3 days. Reach Dr.Grant via email on ;grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com Dr.Grant brought back my happiness.

Anonymous said...


i am shearing out this testimony, because am so happy about my life i don't have much to say, over 1year, i was just like a widow, because my husband left me and my 2kids, he went and stay with another woman, and i tried my possible best for him to come back he refuse, i was the one carried
all the responsibility in our matrimonial home,so i notice that something was wrong one day i was online on internet i saw a testimony of a lady that Dr David, help, it was just like my own case, so i email Dr David. and told him my problems, he promise to help me, after he true with my spell my husband will come back immediately, i was having faith on him, because
i saw the evidences of his work, after casting of the spell for 48ours my husband come back home, and i promise Dr David that i will continuously shearing his good work because he real take me out of sorrow. if you are interested you can email him; drunoko@gmail.com

anounymous comment said...


I am Mrs guwen from USA, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank DR OBODO for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk a great spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 3 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR OBODO released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my fiance is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DR OBODO for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. templeofanswer@hotmail.co.uk(+2348155425481)

Anonymous said...



Murphy

My Name is Murphy I never believed in Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster called Dr Akura, The woman i wanted to marry left me a months to our weeding and my life was upside down.she was with me for 6years and i really love her so much..she left me for another man with no reasons..when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don't want to see me around her...so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try...In 3 days,she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe she can ever come back to me again but now i am happy she's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this to the forum if anyone needs the mans help.Can contact him through this email: temple.ofakurasolutiontemple@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

ockert bester

Good day to you all, my name is ockert bester I never believe in love spells until I experience spell caster Dr Akura of akurasolutiontemple@gmail.command after he cast a love spell for me, my ex called me to apologize for the pain that she has caused me and till today we are living a happy family, and she brought joy to my life relationship. once again thanks to Dr. Akura for the wonderful works that he has done for me. And if you are experiencing any problem with your partner, I will advise you to contact Dr Akura spell caster and I assure you that he will help you. Email: akurasolutiontemple@gmail.com


Joy Micheal said...

Hello I am Joy Micheal ,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex lover back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to DR GREAT OSOBA the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to DR GREAT OSOBA about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR GREAT OSOBA at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: greatosobaspelltemple@gmail.com. and get your problems solve like me..... ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: greatosobaspelltemple@gmail.com

Morris Anderson said...

hello everyone


My name is Glory White this is to testify that priest omigodo is a great spell caster he brought back my lover in just 2days after both of us divorce 5years ago, now my lover is back and he is the kind of man i want him to be if you are in any kind of problem please contact him for fast spell and urgent response he can also be trusted contact him on his email address on : omigodoshrine@hotmail.co.uk or call his personal phone number for urgent response on +2348079367204

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Anonymous said...

I am Sharon. I want to and appreciate ancient ijebude spell temple for bringing back my husband who left me and the kids for about four months within three days Dr Ijebu was able to bring him back to me.. i am very much grateful for restoring peace in my marital home i pray God give you the strength to help more people having similar problem like mine. for help or spells you can reach him on his email address: ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com

gumbala said...

Hi My name is Bruno Rico' just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage... I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time... it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce... I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn't want to loose her but everything just didn't work out... she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce... I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out... I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice... He did special prayers and used roots and herbs... Within 7 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it... You can email him via eromosalelovespell@outlook.com Don't give up just yet, the different between 'Ordinary' & 'Extra-Ordinary' is the 'Extra' so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it's truly worth it. you can also call (Dr Eromosale) on +2347034673139.

Monica Maxwell said...


Hello to every one out here,Am Monica Maxwell, from United States am here to shear my the unexpected miracle that has happen to me few days ago, I came across a post online talking about how she got her ex back to her with the help of the great spell caster who happens to be high Dr OSIAN, that he helped her though i never believe this because i was just wondering how could this be, but i gave my self hope and i contact the spell caster. this is the unbelievable that has happened to me this December I was happily married and we had three kids, we lived together as one because we both loved each other but before i knew it, my husband started acting funny and cheating on me later on, he told me that he cannot continue with me so that was how he left me and my three kids without noting but there was noting i could do to stop him or bring him back to me I work so had to pay the children's schools fee and other responsibility i did this for good five years. I cry all day and night because i don't know what else to do to have my husband back to me until this faithful day i saw the post from on one site a woman testifying how the high priest helped her to get her ex back I just wanted to try my luck because i never believe it will work but to my greatest surprise, am singing a new song i contacted the great priest on 2nd of December and he told me not to worry because once he finish caster the spell, that i will get my husband back the unbelievable happened on Friday when i got a call and I was surprise to hear my husbands voice apologizing to me that he is so sorry for keeping alone and came back home and we are happy together again wow, i really appreciate your good work great Dr OSIAN, God bless you and your good work for there noting else i can say than to tell the world about you. So if any one is out here seeing this post and you have similar issue like this, worry no more and contact the only man that can help you this email:osianspelltemple@yahoo.com

john walter said...

My name is Mr john live in Indonesia and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children.I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”Ogbapaullovespellcaster1@gmail.comI never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dream of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “Dr Ogba ShiRINE”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your pros too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS……0GBAPAULLOVESPELLCASTER1@gmail.com or +2348116144331

Olodumare said...

okay why is it dat each time we in together she dont like treat me like her boyfriend, like hold my hands or like treat like her's if u dont no about us and u come in u wont no if we dating

Eunice said...

I am from USA,i hear how people are talking about The powerful spell caster called DR okse in regard of how he bring back ex lover,winning lottery,getting pregnant and getting married to their dream true lover and i also contact him to help me cast a spell in regard of my ex lover whom i love so much that left me 2yrs ago,but today my ex is back to me and we are happily married with 3kids and i am so much happy for the help i found in you DR Ekuku. I and my family are very much happy and we are living large now,i am grateful and appreciate your good work of spell casting,thank you and may you leave long to help people in problems His email is professionallovespell@hotmail.com

butty said...


The guy my girlfriend left me for dumped her for someone he works with after casting the win ex back spell which my friend introduce me to! the win ex back spell works fast! Of course she called me and pleaded for my forgiveness and now she always want to be with me,she is always attached to me now trusting everything i say to her. I love knowing I had everything to do with this winexbackspell@gmail.com for i will keep shearing the goodness until i am satisfy.

Anonymous said...

Since my last boyfriend I have felt so lonely. You know that as I explained that thoroughly in my first email to you. I wished for my heart to be filled with love and happiness and you did that! I have met the perfect guy and I am to be promoted tomorrow at work! It seems that the gods are smiling at me and you are the reason why. I will be your faithful follower for ever. Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

i almost took my life because of my ex who left me and stop picking my calls. He said do not trust me anymore, I tried to convince him, but he will not believe me until we had a fight and broke up for 10months, after then I realize I can not live without him because of the love I have for him. I tried everything possible to get him back, but non worked for me, some fake spell casters scammed me and went away with my money until I came across this man called dr. malawi, he cast a spell for me and behold my ex came back after 5 hours , begging me for forgiveness, I was so surprised that spell caster like dr. malawi still exist. If anyone here needs some help, with all sincerity, contact dr.malawi via his email:worldwidesupremetemple@gmail.com)

Anonymous said...





i never thought possible that dr.marnish can do miracles, like restoring broken relationship! At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable, I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of fake spell casters, scams and i never really believed in magic but I played along with a little hope and and faith and after everything, the love spell worked like a magic This love spells casted by dr.marnish@ yahoo. com made my man who broke my heart 4 months ago to come back to me, this is unbelievable, Only 3 days after the love spell was casted, my lover said that he wants us to come back together. to my surprise, he came back the next morning he was all on me kissing and rubbing me telling me how much he missed me and how much he loves me , that he wants me back. i was happy and i gladly took him back, thanks to dr.marnish for helping me to bring my lover back, please if you have the same issues as mine call dr marnish for help @ his number +1 5 0 3 6 6 2 6 9 3
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Anonymous said...

I want to share my testimony and my happiness with you all in this site, last year my husband left me for another woman in his working place and he abandon me and my 2kids, everything was so hard for me because i love him so much, so i saw the testimonies of priest okpobo how he has been helping ladies in getting there husband back so i contacted him and he help me to cast a return spell for my husband and in 4days my husband left the other woman and he come back to me with so much love and caring. i will never forget this help that priest okpobo gave to me and my children.if you are here you need help to get you lover back you can contact him through this email priestokpobomagictemple131@gmail.com, i am proud to be on his testimony page

Anonymous said...

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bridget martina said...


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Anonymous said...

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dr abel justus said...

This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Olivia Jane Mike, and I base in London.My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he
restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at
the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:
drabeljustus@gmail.com Thank you great Justus. Contact him for the following:

(1)If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3)You want to be promoted in your office.
(4)You want women/men to run after you.
(5)If you want a child.
(6)[You want to be rich.
(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8)If you need financial assistance.
(9)Herbal care
10)Help bringing people out of prison
(11)Marriage Spells
(12)Miracle Spells
(13)Beauty Spells
(14)PROPHECY CHARM
(15)Attraction Spells
(16)Evil Eye Spells
(17)Kissing Spell
(18)Remove Sickness Spells
(19)ELECTION WINNING SPELLS
(20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
(21) Charm to get who to love you.
(22)Business spell.
Contact him today on:
drabeljustus@gmail.com,
+2347033354868.
You can also CONTACT HIM ON whatsApp on the number.

dr abel justus said...

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