Friend Is Getting Ready to Blab. What Now?

Dear Dee:
I like a boy at school.
My best friend is going to tell him. What should I do?


The first thing to do is tell your friend to mind her own business! It's not her place to tell a guy you like him and her telling him against your wishes is nothing short of mean. And if she's doing in despite your objections, I'd say it was time to evaluate your friendship.

If you want this guy to know you like him, then it's up to you to show him/tell him. Don't ask someone else to do it. YOU need to be in control of what's happening and what info is being given out. And if you can't do it on your own, then maybe you're not quite ready to have a dating relationship. AND THAT'S OK! Too many people rush into it and seriously, there's no need to.

So, again, in the kindest way possible, tell your friend to shut her big mouth and that you'll handle it in your own time.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

As a guy, I can say that when guys find out a girl likes them, they usually don't think of them any different, and may begin to like tehm if they don't already