How Can I Get Over Him?

Dear Dee:
My boyfriend and I broke up. He already has a new girlfriend. I told myself I didn't care we broke up and I didn't care about him anymore.

But I still care about him a lot! How do you stop caring about someone who has stopped caring about you?

There is no easy way to get over a break up when you still have strong feelings for the person you broke up with.
So it really is just a matter of getting up every morning, dealing with it the best you can and eventually the pain does go away. There’s really nothing else you can do. Keep yourself busy, try to get involved in some things you might have wanted to try in the past and rely on your friends to help you when you feel like you wanna break down!

Try your hardest not to call him, write him IMs or emails and you’ll get through this. I am not saying ignore him altogether, but it’s best to cut ties for awhile, until you can deal more easily with your feelings. I strongly advise against jumping into another relationship quickly.

Give yourself time to heal. And then you’ll know when you do get involved with someone again, that it’s for the right reasons.