Interracial Dating: How Will My Parents Take It?

Dear Dee:
I really like this white boy and I'm black. I don't know how our parents would take an interracial relationship. What should I do? He is the boy of my dreams.

Well, it's probably time you sat down with your parents and had a very candid conversation about dating. And when you do this, it is important for you to be prepared, very decisive in your choice of words and respectful. Let them know you've thought this through, and you're interested in someone outside your race -- and you'd like to date him.

It is crucial to let your parents know you have thought through this thoroughly and are up to the challenges you could face. Let them know you believe you are mature enough to handle an interracial relationship and the scrutiny that could come along with it.

Unfortunately, many people aren't as open-minded about interracial dating as our generation is -- in fact, your parents may not be open-minded about it! So it is your task to let them know that while they may not be comfortable with it, you're responsible enough to handle it. And who knows? You might convince them to change their minds on the subject.

The world has come along way in accepting interracial relationships, but a lot of people still have a long way to go. And when strong, independent people like you decide to take the issue head-on by not letting the adversity scare you off, you make us one step closer to being a more accepting people. Be proud of yourself. Be strong. And I hope it all works out.